Mended Minds

Mended Minds Integrative and person centred counselling/psychotherapy for private and NDIS clients.

Trauma informed and evidence based therapeutic services focusing on helping people overcome grief, loss and trauma to live fulfilling lives.

Attachment is the invisible emotional bond formed in childhood that serves as a permanent internal map for how we trust,...
26/04/2026

Attachment is the invisible emotional bond formed in childhood that serves as a permanent internal map for how we trust, communicate, and build intimacy with others throughout our lives.

The good news - we can change old patterns.

Finding the right therapist is a lot like dating. 💖 You have to be willing to look, and it's okay if the first few aren'...
23/04/2026

Finding the right therapist is a lot like dating. 💖 You have to be willing to look, and it's okay if the first few aren't the right fit—it’s not them or you, it’s just not the right match. Don't give up—your perfect match is out there. Trust your gut feeling, because its authenticity, empathy, and nonjudgment are non-negotiables. Therapist are human and the bond with the therapist is critical to the process.

www.mendedminds.com.au

The window of tolerance helps us remember we hava a choice on how we feel.
16/04/2026

The window of tolerance helps us remember we hava a choice on how we feel.

Prioritise you. 🙌🌿
13/04/2026

Prioritise you. 🙌🌿

Our deeply held beliefs act as the lens through which we view the world, often turning neutral interactions into perceiv...
08/04/2026

Our deeply held beliefs act as the lens through which we view the world, often turning neutral interactions into perceived threats. If we carry a core belief of being "defective," we instinctively interpret feedback as criticism, reinforcing a cycle of shame that keeps us trapped in a defensive reality. This narrow perspective was often constructed in childhood, designed by a version of ourselves that lacked the emotional tools to process complex experiences. By clinging to these outdated survival mechanisms, we remain imprisoned in a "dangerous" world of our own making, blind to the expansive and liberating potential of the present.

Gently lean into the possibility that there is more to your story than the walls you've built. Try, just for today, to look for an "alternate reality"—one where you are already enough and simply observe how the world begins to shift and soften around you.

You are responsible to create your future, you are nolonger the fearful child.

Your responsibility is to yourself before anyone or anything else. How can you give from an empty cup . ❤️🙏🏽
08/04/2026

Your responsibility is to yourself before anyone or anything else. How can you give from an empty cup . ❤️🙏🏽

Questioning what we believe about reality is the beginning of changing how we react. It can be difficult without the rig...
06/04/2026

Questioning what we believe about reality is the beginning of changing how we react. It can be difficult without the right support.

Patterns don’t change themselves.

If you grew up in an environment where you had to be the "responsible one" or scan for moods and danger, you likely deve...
28/03/2026

If you grew up in an environment where you had to be the "responsible one" or scan for moods and danger, you likely developed a Hyper-Vigilant Mode.

Play requires vulnerability. To truly play, you have to:

Stop scanning the room for threats.

Let go of being "productive."

Risk looking "silly" or being out of control.

For a hyper-vigilant brain, letting your guard down feels physically dangerous. Your "Inner Protector" steps in to shut down the fun because it thinks staying tense is the only way to stay safe. 🛡️

It’s about teaching your nervous system that it’s finally safe to "un-clench."

Start small. Try "Low-Stakes Play", something with no scoreboard, no audience, and no "right" way to do it. Doodling, a solo dance party, or even just sitting in the grass without a watch or phone. It’s okay to let the Spontaneous Child out for five minutes today. 🎈✨

Growth has no destination. It’s a journey that focuses on seeing the present moment with fresh eyes.
21/03/2026

Growth has no destination. It’s a journey that focuses on seeing the present moment with fresh eyes.

Feeling stuck in a cycle of stress? You don’t have to stay there. Real, lasting change is absolutely possible, and it st...
10/03/2026

Feeling stuck in a cycle of stress? You don’t have to stay there. Real, lasting change is absolutely possible, and it starts with learning the art of psychological flexibility.
Shift from reacting to your thoughts to living by your values. If you're ready to cultivate a more resilient, peaceful, and open life, I’m here to help you navigate that journey.

✨ Take the first step toward a more flexible.

Www.mendedminds.com.au

Perfection is impossible and mistakes help us learn. It’s how we respond to disappointment that makes all the difference...
04/03/2026

Perfection is impossible and mistakes help us learn. It’s how we respond to disappointment that makes all the difference. Be kind 🙏🏽❤️

Address

2, 25 Horton Street
Port Macquarie, NSW
2444

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 6pm
Tuesday 10am - 6pm
Wednesday 10am - 6pm
Thursday 10am - 6pm
Friday 10am - 6pm

Telephone

+61427440008

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