07/01/2026
Your client isn’t “stressed.”
They’re organised around survival.
The nervous system follows a hierarchy — not a mood.
🟢 Ventral Vagal State: safety, connection, healing
🟡 Fight / Flight: mobilisation, anxiety, anger
🔵 Dorsal Vagal State: shutdown, numbness, “nothing works”
Here’s the mistake ⤵️
Trying to calm a system that’s still frozen.
You can’t bypass mobilisation to get back to regulation.
That’s the Law of Hierarchical Processing:
Charges clear in layers. As one resolves, the next appears.
So when depression turns into irritation?
That’s not regression — that’s movement.
Heal the hierarchy.
The system follows.
Nick