Melissa Ferrari - Psychotherapist & Relationship Expert

23/04/2026

I often got the opportunity to be interviewed on ABC by James Valentine. We covered numerous relationship topics and he was an interviewer with a generous spirit. With a long career in TV and radio he died today at the age of only 64.

A lovely soul lost and may he rest in peace. He will be missed 💔

21/04/2026

For a long time, sharing a bed has been seen as a non-negotiable marker of a healthy relationship. But what if that belief is doing more harm than good?

Across Australia, more couples are quietly rethinking this norm, choosing sleep quality over tradition, and finding that it doesn’t weaken their connection, but can actually strengthen it.

As a relationship expert, I see this shift as less about separation and more about understanding the real needs within a partnership. Because the truth is, healthy relationships aren’t built on rigid rules, they’re built on flexibility, communication, and respect for each other’s wellbeing 🤍

I loved contributing to this topic. Read the full article 👇🏼

Some people who have jumped on this trend have said it's been a game-changer for their relationships.

20/04/2026

🎙️𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 (𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠) - Dr. Stan Tatkin

💬 Ever argued with your partner and felt like you were speaking two different languages?

Conflict is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to push you apart. Dr. Stan Tatkin, marriage and family therapist, shares how couples can “work the problem, not each other” and come out more connected than before.

👉 Tune in for practical tools to turn arguments into opportunities for closeness > https://tinyurl.com/bddmvx6s

17/04/2026

Loneliness isn’t just a feeling. It’s a health risk as serious as smoking.

This conversation matters, especially when we look at how differently men and women experience connection, vulnerability, and support. Too many men are navigating life without safe spaces to open up, and the consequences are real ✨

In my work, I see just how important connection, trust and emotional safety are during some of life’s most vulnerable moments.

We need to keep talking about this. We need to keep showing up for each other. And we need to create spaces where it’s okay and safe to be human.

Read about this important topic 👇

"It's essential men continue to show up this way."

16/04/2026

I'm looking forward to being a panelist for Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia - PACFA Student & Early Career Conference 2026 🙌🏼

The PACFA Student & Early Career Conference 2026 is a National online event designed to help counselling students, recent graduates, and emerging practitioners begin their careers with clarity and confidence.

With my desire to help new Therapists launch their careers I am honoured to be asked to speak in the panel this Saturday ✨

Starting your counselling career and need some guidance? Join us for a one-day online event covering early career pathways, supervision, registration, the National Standards, and insurance essentials. Plus, win great prizes thanks to Insurance.com.au

15/04/2026

Romance scams are more common and more convincing than most realise 😳

Australians lost over $140 million to these scams in 2025 according to the ACCC, with older Aussies most at risk. These situations are not just about money, they are built on emotional manipulation where trust is formed quickly and then exploited.

With scams becoming more sophisticated, especially with AI, it is getting harder to recognise when someone is taking advantage of a very real human need for connection ✨

Listen in here as I unpack the warning signs, the tactics like love bombing, and why so many people blame themselves when these scams are designed to deceive > https://tinyurl.com/2kcc2x77

13/04/2026

Enjoyed so much this weekend teaching PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) with The PACT Institute. Wonderful and talented couple therapists from around the world learning this modern couple therapy model developed out of and cutting edge research in the areas of Neuroscience, Attachment Theory and Biology of Human Arousal ❤️

10/04/2026

Netflix’s Age of Attraction has sparked a big conversation about whether age really matters in relationships.

The show sees people form genuine connections without knowing each other’s age — only to later discover some are decades apart… and many still choose to pursue it.

I joined Belinda and Lizzie on Today Extra to unpack why age-gap relationships happen, when they can work, and when they might become unhealthy 📺

Link to You Tube in Bio👆🏼

10/04/2026

Netflix’s Age of Attraction has sparked a big conversation about whether age really matters in relationships.

The show sees people form genuine connections without knowing each other’s age — only to later discover some are decades apart… and many still choose to pursue it.

I joined Belinda and Lizzie on Today Extra to unpack why age-gap relationships happen, when they can work, and when they might become unhealthy 📺

08/04/2026

Can love truly transcend age?
When does an age gap become too big?
And what should you consider if you're in a relationship with a significant age difference?

Join us TODAY at 10:35am as we dive into the discussion 🧐

08/04/2026

In this concise yet powerful interview, writer Kyle Benson sits down with Dr. Stan Tatkin, founder of PACT therapy and author of Wired for Love, to explore what truly makes relationships feel safe and secure ❤️

Their discussion highlights the importance of becoming an “expert” on your partner, understanding attachment styles, and building fairness into the foundation of a relationship.

Together, they unpack practical, compassionate strategies couples can use to create a partnership that feels steady, supportive, and deeply connected.

Read full article > Link in Bio👆🏼

08/04/2026

In this concise yet powerful interview, writer Kyle Benson sits down with Dr. Stan Tatkin, founder of PACT therapy and author of Wired for Love, to explore what truly makes relationships feel safe and secure ❤️

Their discussion highlights the importance of becoming an “expert” on your partner, understanding attachment styles, and building fairness into the foundation of a relationship. Together, they unpack practical, compassionate strategies couples can use to create a partnership that feels steady, supportive, and deeply connected.

Read full article 👇🏼

In a recent interview, I had the pleasure of speaking with Dr. Stan Tatkin, the developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) and best-selling author of “In Each Other’s…