Brilliance Relationship Coaching with Jani

15/01/2021

Sharing your visions for the future gives your partner the chance to share their dreams and hopes too. Date nights/days can be a great opportunity to sit and chat about what would make your heart sing in the future. There's no need to plan or decide straight away. Dreams can just be things we talk about and imagine. For someone people goals are essential but on dates goals aren't the goal. It's a time to let your loved one into your mind's yearnings and heart's imaginings.

23/04/2020

Find the best in your partner and your partner might be open to being more positive as well.

30/11/2019

This is what we do! We can provide skills and practical suggestions to help take your relationship from ordinary to extraordinary. We offer extended hour appointments face to face and online via a secure encrypted site. You can message us any time.

23/10/2019

As the law changed at midnight, same-sex couples celebrated the culmination of a rollercoaster campaign

08/10/2019

17/07/2019

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Finding the help that best suits your needs.

15/07/2019

Horseman No: 4. Another big challenge.

Stonewalling occurs when the listener withdraws from the interaction, shutting down and closing themselves off from the speaker because they are feeling overwhelmed or physiologically flooded. Rather than confronting the issue, someone who is stonewalling will be totally unresponsive.

15/07/2019

Horseman No: 3 is a doozy!

Contempt is the worst of the four horsemen. It is the most destructive negative behavior in relationships, but we can help you defeat it and prevent it from returning.

15/07/2019

Horseman No: 2

Defensiveness is defined as self-protection in the form of righteous indignation or innocent victimhood in an attempt to ward off a perceived attack.