21/03/2026
And even in the darkā¦ you learn to see
ā¦
āHe taught me how to live.
And as much as it hurts to live without himā¦
this lifeā¦
I owe it to him.ā
ā¦
I heard these words this morning ā¦.
and they didnāt just land in my mindā¦
they landed straight into my heart ā¤ļø
Because this is the part no one prepares you forā¦
When the person who expanded your lifeā¦
becomes the space you now have to live without.
Itās a strange kind of paradox.
Gratitude and griefā¦
existing in the same breath š
āIām so thankful for youāā¦
and āI donāt know yet how to be here without you, iām learningā
at the same timeā¦.
There are loves that donāt end
They donāt fade
They donāt disappear
They transform
They move from the outsideā¦
to the inside.
From something you could touchā¦
to something that now lives in your mind body and soul
your choices,
your way of seeing the world š
and this is where it gets real
ā¦.grief is not just missing someone
Itās becoming someone new
because of themā¦
and without them š
Some days it feels like itās too much to hold
Like your body canāt contain that much love and that much absence at once and other daysā¦
you realise that same love
is the reason youāre still standing.
And in constellationā¦ we say:
I choose to stay
I choose to stay with life
I choose to stay with the pain
I choose to stayā¦ even when somentimes part of me wants to leave.
Maybe this is the sacred part no one explains.
That the pain is not here to break youā¦
itās here to reshape you to stretch your heart
wide enough
to hold both love and lossā¦ at the same time.
and maybe the real honourā¦
is not to move on
but to live in a way
that makes their love visible through youš
In how you love
In how you show up
In how you choose lifeā¦ even when it hurts
Marta Piller Roner your words are courage,
Your painā¦ is love that still lives,
and the way you choose to be
that is something truly remarkable
I LOVE YOU TANTO I HONOUR YOU, KEEP INSPIRING MARTA ššššš
āYou didnāt leaveā¦
you became the way I liveāā¤ļø
