The Counselling Room

The Counselling Room The Counselling Room.Warm, compassionate, effective counselling in Springwood.Individuals. Couples. Workshops.Disclaimer: This page advertises a business.

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21/11/2025

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Uncertainty is one of the most uncomfortable states for the human brain. Neuroscience shows that the brain is constantly scanning for safety, stability, and predictability. When something feels unclear or unresolved, the nervous system interprets it as a potential threat. This triggers the brain’s natural survival mechanisms, making the unknown feel heavier and more stressful than the actual situation itself.

Research reveals that the brain dislikes gaps in information. When a situation feels uncertain, the mind starts filling those gaps by creating scenarios, predictions, and possibilities. This is why people often find themselves overthinking. The brain is trying to regain control by imagining outcomes, even if they are unlikely or negative. Psychologists explain that this process is an attempt to reduce anxiety, but it can become mentally exhausting.

The stress response also activates during uncertainty. Levels of cortisol rise, attention narrows, and the brain becomes more sensitive to emotional signals. This can lead to repetitive thinking patterns, racing thoughts, and a strong urge to seek answers right away. The discomfort is not weakness. It is a biological reaction designed to keep you safe.

Understanding this can help you approach uncertainty with more clarity. When the brain reacts intensely, it is responding to perceived lack of control. Awareness is the first step in calming the system and creating a sense of grounding.

Getting ready for clients starting Monday!Not sure we will be completely ready, but it's definitely getting there.Today ...
15/11/2025

Getting ready for clients starting Monday!

Not sure we will be completely ready, but it's definitely getting there.

Today is painting my office and repainting the yellow safety paint for the stairs.

And the air-conditioning man is here, getting rid of the ancient non-working units (three different obsolete types in one small office- how is that even possible?!) and putting in nice ducted coolness πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ» β„οΈπŸ†’

I don't think we will have the furniture all in place for Monday, but at least we will be cool 😎

Moving day! Grateful to have chosen today, as rain β˜”πŸŒ§οΈ and storms β›ˆοΈπŸŒ§οΈare predicted for the next two days!
13/11/2025

Moving day! Grateful to have chosen today, as rain β˜”πŸŒ§οΈ and storms β›ˆοΈπŸŒ§οΈare predicted for the next two days!

Tomorrow morning is the Summit that I am presenting at! SO many hours of preparation have gone into this one. I really w...
07/11/2025

Tomorrow morning is the Summit that I am presenting at!

SO many hours of preparation have gone into this one. I really wanted it to be very useful, so I am teaching 12 tools that therapists can use when seeing couples.

And because I wanted the therapists to get a really good understanding of the techniques, I have even used some 'actors' to make little vignette videos of the tools in action. It's been an immense amount of work, but I truly hope to give the therapists confidence as they work with couples.

I'm first speaker for the second day of the Summit. My name is on the program!

06/11/2025

Moving date to the new address is official!

Monday 17th November @ Cinderella Drive Springwood 🏑

Madly painting and other stuff at the moment

30/10/2025

The Counselling Room is MOVING.

Logan City Council, who own my current clinic building, have put the building up for public tender, so I am needing to move on.

I have loved my time here, and I know my clients have enjoyed the peaceful space, the beautiful tree through the window, and my lolly bowl haha.

Well, I can't take the tree with me, but I can take the lolly bowl!

I have found a new place just around the corner on Cinderella Drive. Watch this space, and I will let you know when I am moving πŸ‘πŸ»

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19/10/2025

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4 Ways to Make Peace with Overwhelming Emotions
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Neuroscience tells us that each emotion only lasts 90 seconds. Adrenaline, cortisol, stress chemistry β€” all rise, peak, and fade in about a minute and a half. ⏰

So why do we stay angry for hours, anxious for days, or sad for weeks?
Because we keep feeding emotions with the same thoughts β€” over and over and over. So, you stay angry, hurt, and depressed. πŸ˜–

The thing I want you to know is that you are doing it to yourself. More importantly, you CAN also stop it. You can learn to make peace with your emotions β€” and even let them teach you β€” by taking a mindful pause, turning toward them with awareness, and doing something to interrupt the cycle. Here are four ways to do that.πŸ‘

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29 Cinderella Drive
Rochedale South, QLD
4127

Opening Hours

Monday 8:30am - 5pm
Tuesday 9:30am - 6:30pm
Wednesday 9:30am - 6pm
Thursday 8:30am - 5pm
Friday 8:30am - 11:30am

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