Journey of Birth - Family Midwife

07/11/2025

Here is every birthdate, ranked from least to most common. How common is your birthday? 🎂

27/10/2025

Skin to skin 100% needed for both mums and their babies… and dad too 😉

You have to love the comment that “separating mums and babies is no longer ethical” yes!! No need for any more comparisons anywhere in the world cause we all know how important it is

27/10/2025

So true 😂😂😂 happens to every breastfeeding mumma at some stage

just saying 🧡🤱🏼🤭

28/09/2025

If you haven’t seen a baby born encaul this little video shows it

Even though it is said to be rare I believe it happens far more frequently then the statistics state. I’ve seen many of these in my time as a midwife and every time it feels so special and I wonder the significance for that child…there are a lot of religious and cultural meaning behind these births so if you are interested google these too!

21/09/2025

👶Did you know this used to be common practice?

For decades, babies were often lifted by their ankles and held upside down immediately after birth.

Sometimes, they were even given a few “spanks” on the bottom 🍑 to stimulate crying.

⚠️ Why did they do this?
• Doctors once believed a newborn needed to cry right away to clear the lungs 🌬️
• Hanging the baby upside down was thought to “drain fluids” from the airways
• Spanking was thought to “jump-start” breathing

💡 What we know now:
• Babies are born already transitioning their lungs to air, no spanking or dangling required 💕
• The safest, most effective place for a newborn to adapt is skin-to-skin on the parent’s chest 🫶
• Crying isn’t the only sign of health…quiet, alert breathing is perfectly normal 🌸

✅ Modern care emphasizes:
🤱 Immediate skin-to-skin
💧 Delayed cord clamping
💤 Allowing the baby to transition gently and naturally

🚫 No hanging, no spanking.

Just trust in physiology and connection 💗

✨ Times change, but photos like this remind us how far birth practices have come and how important it is to keep questioning the “norm.”

-Love,
Badassmotherbirther

21/09/2025

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When the immediate postpartum is undisturbed, the first language spoken is not words. There’s just touch and the quiet symphony of skin against skin.

A baby pressed to the chest, breathing in the familiar scent of home they have always known.

The warmth of their parents’ embrace guides them gently into the world, teaching safety, trust, and love without a single instruction.

Touch, smell, closeness…they are not luxuries.
They are the ancient threads that weave
bonding, regulation, and belonging.

In these first moments, before the world intrudes,
there is only this: the holy exchange of presence.

-Love,
Flor Cruz
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𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬, 𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐁𝐚𝐝𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐁𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞, 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞, 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞, & 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭!

21/09/2025

I’ve seen several posts circulating about blue breast milk having more antibodies for baby when mom or baby is sick. It may sound cool, but it’s not actually based on fact. Breastmilk can be many colors, and can have a natural bluish hue caused by the presence of whey protein (which accounts for 50-80% of the protein content in your milk depending on your stage of lactation). This blue hue is usually more visible when the volume of your milk is high and the fat content relatively lower. This can happen for many reasons: You may notice this blueish color more when you’ve has gone a longer time between pumpings, like first thing in the morning, when your breasts are fuller from sleeping longer at night. A blueish tint in expressed breast milk is mainly due to higher whey protein which is seen at the beginning of feeding. As the breast continues to empty, the composition changes to more casein protein, which is higher in fat, giving it that creamier color. It’s a gradual change as the feeding progresses. When using a pump to empty the breast, you may not see the blue color as you’re more fully emptying the breast. Those that use a Haakaa or a milk catcher like a may note a more blue color in the milk they collect as these devices often only catch leaking drip milk, which is a higher water content, lower fat content milk.

Be assured, bluish milk and whiter/yellower milk have the SAME components and are the same milk. There are not two different types or kinds of milk. It’s just the ratio of the various components like water and fat that can change based on how you’re feeding and pumping.

Those who feed their babies frequently or empty their breasts often and more thoroughly tend to not see the bluer milk, but they can when going longer between feeding. Those with an exceptionally robust milk supply or those who go long stretches between feeds may occasionally see a more bluish hue to their milk.

Regardless of the color of your milk, it is the perfect milk to feed your baby.

30/07/2025

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Not everything in birth can be quantified.

You can measure dilation.
You can track contractions.
You can count minutes, centimeters, decibels, and heart tones.

But you can’t measure the courage it takes to surrender.

You can’t chart the power of a mother reclaiming her voice.

You can’t graph the safety of being surrounded by people who trust birth and trust you.

Birth is not just a physiological event.

It’s emotional, ancestral, spiritual, and deeply human.

And no monitor, no metric, no number on a screen will ever fully capture that.

-Love,
Flor Cruz
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