Alain Moulay - Sex Therapist - Relationship Counsellor

30/10/2025

The problem is not the problem….perhaps it’s the attitude towards the problem?

29/09/2025

Jacqueline’s new Couple’s Masterclass!
Check it out!

14/08/2025

Codependency can look like ‘one or the other’. Instead, aim for one ‘and’ the other!

Many people confuse interdependence with codependence. It’s important that partners understand the difference.

Codependence is one-directional. It may rely on two people, but it is not functionally a “two-person system.” All of the time, energy, and resources are directed towards one partner. The needs of the other partner are not treated with equal importance.

In contrast, interdependence is a mutually beneficial two-person system. Both partners enjoy the ability to rely on one another, while also taking each other as their burden. No one partner’s needs take precedence over the other.

Rather than one partner being the priority, the relationship itself is the priority.

25/03/2025

Some signs and behaviours

29/10/2024

Be close, be friends….