Recovery Supports Australia

Recovery Supports Australia Call us today to learn more!

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—š๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ (๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€)Perfectionism often disguises itself as motivation, but und...
31/03/2026

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—š๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ (๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€)

Perfectionism often disguises itself as motivation, but underneath it is usually fear โ€” fear of rejection, failure, or not being โ€œenough.โ€ The inner critic tells us that mistakes are dangerous, when in reality, mistakes are part of being human.

True growth comes from progress, not flawlessness.

๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€:

- Replace โ€œperfectโ€ with โ€œgood enough for today.โ€
- Set a minimum goal instead of a maximum one.
- When you make a mistake, ask: โ€œWhat would I say to a friend right now?โ€

Perfectionism tightens the nervous system. Compassion relaxes it. When you allow yourself room to be imperfect, you create safety โ€” and safety is where real confidence grows.

๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ (๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜)Many of us have an inner voice that comments constantly โ€” judging, w...
30/03/2026

๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ (๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜)

Many of us have an inner voice that comments constantly โ€” judging, warning, pushing, or shaming. This voice often developed as a survival strategy, especially in environments where criticism or emotional unpredictability were common. While it may once have tried to protect you, it can now keep you stuck.

Instead of trying to silence this voice outright, the first step is recognition without judgment. Noticing when the inner critic shows up helps you step out of autopilot and back into choice.

๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€:

- Give your inner critic a neutral name (e.g., โ€œThe Commentatorโ€).
- When it speaks, say silently: โ€œI hear you, but Iโ€™m in charge now.โ€
- Write down what it says โ€” seeing it on paper often softens its power.

This practice creates space between you and the voice. You are not your thoughts โ€” you are the one noticing them. Awareness is the beginning of change, and gentleness makes change sustainable.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐——๐—ผ ๐—œ๐˜ ๐—”๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒโ€œAlone we can do so little; together we can do so much.โ€ โ€” Helen KellerReaching out for sup...
29/03/2026

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐——๐—ผ ๐—œ๐˜ ๐—”๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ

โ€œAlone we can do so little; together we can do so much.โ€ โ€” Helen Keller

Reaching out for support is a sign of strength, not defeat. Whether itโ€™s a recovery coach, support worker, or someone you trust, connection makes the journey easier.

Actionable Tip: Send one supportive message to someone, or reach out for help if you need it.

๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ: ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ ๐—ž๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑHave you ever noticed a voice inside that seems quick to...
29/03/2026

๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ: ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ ๐—ž๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ

Have you ever noticed a voice inside that seems quick to point out what went wrong, what you should be doing better, or why youโ€™re not quite measuring up? Youโ€™re not alone. Most of us carry an inner critic โ€” a running commentary shaped by past experiences, expectations, and attempts to stay safe in the world.

This series isnโ€™t about getting rid of that voice altogether. Instead, itโ€™s about learning how to soften its grip, understand where it came from, and respond to it with more compassion and choice. For many people, the inner critic developed during times when being alert, self-controlled, or self-critical felt necessary. What once helped us cope can later become exhausting.

Over the next 10 posts, weโ€™ll gently explore common ways the inner critic shows up โ€” from perfectionism and overthinking to comparison, guilt, and fear. Each post will offer practical, doable tools you can try in everyday life. Nothing here requires you to โ€œfixโ€ yourself or think positively all the time. The goal is simply to create a kinder inner environment where growth feels safer.

Youโ€™re encouraged to move through this series at your own pace. Some posts may resonate more than others. Take whatโ€™s useful, leave whatโ€™s not, and return to ideas as often as you need. Reflection, not pressure, is what makes change sustainable.

Most importantly, this series is a reminder that struggl

29/03/2026

The Roots to Recovery Program is presented by Recovery Supports Australia. We currently have availability for new participants. Contact us to join.

Good things take timeโ€ฆ including jokes ๐ŸšงHave a fun and easy Friday.
26/03/2026

Good things take timeโ€ฆ including jokes ๐Ÿšง
Have a fun and easy Friday.

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—–๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒHealing Complex PTSD is not about eliminating survival responses. It is about restoring bala...
24/03/2026

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—–๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ

Healing Complex PTSD is not about eliminating survival responses. It is about restoring balance. As awareness grows, the nervous system slowly learns that safety can exist in many forms.

Recovery is gradual. Progress shows up as shorter, softer reactions; increased selfโ€‘compassion; and the ability to stay present with emotion. Over time, the 4F responses become tools rather than traps.

Reflection: What would greater flexibility feel like in your life?

Understanding your 4F type is not the end of healing โ€” it is a compassionate beginning.

*This series is based on the C-PTSD work of psychotherapist, Pete Walker.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฉ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณโ€‘๐—”๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜Selfโ€‘assessment in the 4F model is not about diagnosis. It is about curiosity. Notici...
23/03/2026

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฉ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณโ€‘๐—”๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜

Selfโ€‘assessment in the 4F model is not about diagnosis. It is about curiosity. Noticing which responses dominate โ€” and when โ€” helps transform automatic reactions into conscious awareness.

You might ask: Which response shows up most often? Which feels hardest to access? How does this shape my relationships, work, and selfโ€‘care?

Reflection: Which response feels most familiar right now?

Insight creates space for flexibility.

*This series is based on the C-PTSD work of psychotherapist, Pete Walker.

๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑAcross all 4F patterns, emotional flashbacks play a central role. These are not ...
23/03/2026

๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ

Across all 4F patterns, emotional flashbacks play a central role. These are not memories with images, but sudden emotional states that feel urgent and overwhelming.

Flashbacks often activate the inner critic, intensifying shame, fear, or urgency. Recovery involves learning to recognize these states, orient to the present, and offer selfโ€‘compassion instead of selfโ€‘attack.

Reflection: How do you usually treat yourself when youโ€™re emotionally overwhelmed?

Awareness is the first step toward choice.

*This series is based on the C-PTSD work of psychotherapist, Pete Walker.

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—œ๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†โ€œAlmost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.โ€ โ€” Anne La...
23/03/2026

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—œ๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†

โ€œAlmost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.โ€ โ€” Anne Lamott

Rest is not weaknessโ€”itโ€™s a strategy. Your body and mind need breaks to heal, regulate, and recharge.

Actionable Tip: Schedule a 10-minute โ€œresetโ€ break today: no chores, no thinking aheadโ€”just rest.

๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€ โ€” ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒFew people fit neatly into one category. Most trauma survivors are hybrids, shift...
23/03/2026

๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€ โ€” ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ

Few people fit neatly into one category. Most trauma survivors are hybrids, shifting between two dominant responses depending on context.

Some combinations are highly relational, swinging between closeness and conflict. Others are more avoidant, alternating between busyness and withdrawal. Hybrids reflect how creative the nervous system can be in trying to manage safety and attachment.

Understanding your hybrid pattern can reduce confusion and selfโ€‘judgment. It explains why you might react very differently at work versus in intimate relationships.

Reflection: Do you notice different survival strategies showing up in different relationships?

Hybrids are not contradictions โ€” they are layered survival wisdom.

*This series is based on the C-PTSD work of psychotherapist, Pete Walker.

Address

-
Saint Kilda, SA
3038

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 5pm

Telephone

+611300913273

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Recovery Supports Australia posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Practice

Send a message to Recovery Supports Australia:

Share

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn
Share on Pinterest Share on Reddit Share via Email
Share on WhatsApp Share on Instagram Share on Telegram