14/11/2025
We always have a choice 🧘♀️✨
We can match the chaos — or hold our centre.
Earlier this week I sat down at my desk with a to-do list bigger than my laptop screen. Deadlines slipping, communication patchy, a messy issue on my website… and no one rushing to fix it.
I felt that familiar inner storm brewing — tight shoulders, shallow breath, the “FFS, it can’t be that hard” loop running wild.
Then I caught myself.
This is the exact crossroads I coach my clients through.
Chaos happens. But we get to choose how we meet it.
So I stepped back. Took a breath. Reminded myself:
“I choose the energy I bring into this.”
And everything softened.
A few truths landed:
✨ Some people bring scattered energy to everything — it doesn’t mean we need to join them.
✨ Calm clarity shows us what aligns and what doesn’t.
✨ Your standards aren’t “too much” — they’re your values guiding the way.
✨ When we stay centred, we don’t get dragged into other people’s storms.
So instead of spiralling, I dealt with it intentionally. No heat. No blame. Just clarity and boundaries.
The reminder?
Life will always throw a bit of chaos. Our power is in how we respond.
Stay centred. Stay clear. Choose your energy.
That’s how we become the steady ones — in business, relationships, and life.
How do you ground yourself when everything feels messy?
Nirelle xo