26/04/2026
We are wired to move away from discomfort and will go to great lengths to avoid it, but what happens when instead of avoiding discomfort we gently turn towards it?
When something feels "off" in your body e.g. tight chest, clenched jaw, and restless energy-that is our nervous system communicating signals for us to understand not avoid. This can look like " what am I feeling right now, where do I notice this in my body" then naming, "this feels like anxiety, I am noticing frustration, there is sadness here".
This may sound too simple but noticing and naming what you feel moves you from a reactive ,overwhelmed state to a more grounded aware one. When you acknowledge what is present your nervous system begins to settle instead of staying in fight flight, or freeze. This makes room for a different response, which can include curiosity, compassion, and choice.
When you teach your nervous system that discomfort is not danger, and you are capable of holding it you may notice real change happen.
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