05/04/2026
Many of us have learned that connection comes at a cost to ourselves. To be more like others we hide parts of who we truly are, we people please, we silence ourselves, we neglect our own needs just to feel accepted and "fit in".
The truth is: the right people won't ask or expect you to abandon yourself. You will feel the difference of "belonging", you can turn up just as you are. It feels safer, more grounded, and authentic.
If you notice yourself over explaining or constantly questioning your worth in relationships ask your self, "Am I fitting in, or am I truly belonging?
If you recognise this behaviour in yourself and would like to explore what is underneath it, I would welcome the opportunity to support you.
Contact me on my website and lets have a chat
https://ccccoounselling.com.au