25/03/2026
Last Friday over $30,000 was raised to support the great work that Camden Women's Shelter do in supporting victims of DV and in educating and empowering young people about healthy relationships, respect, and the importance of preventing domestic and family violence through the ‘Walk the Talk’ early intervention program. In this way, Camden Women's Shelter provide both proactive and reactive support.
In an ideal world we would hope that we start to see a fall in DV incidents rather than the incline that we now have. But for this to happen we need to educate ourselves and be proactive in the role that we play.
The following are some words I shared as the emcee on the day.
"While providing safe places to go is critical… we also have to ask ourselves—how do we stop people needing to flee in the first place? The answer begins with awareness. With education. With conversations that, for a long time, many of us were never taught to have.
I want to share something personal. It took me 53 years to understand what narcissistic abuse even was. And the only reason I learnt… was because I experienced it myself. Here I was an educated, mature, confident woman… someone who you might assume would recognise the signs… and yet, I still found myself in that position. That’s the reality of domestic violence. It doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t only affect the vulnerable or the uneducated. It can happen to anyone. Which is why education isn’t optional— it’s essential. We need to be teaching our young people what respect really looks like. What healthy relationships feel like. What warning signs to look for—not just the obvious ones, but the subtle, controlling, manipulative behaviours that can be just as damaging.
And just as importantly… we need to keep educating ourselves. Because what we don’t understand, we can’t challenge. And what we don’t challenge… we risk enabling. We cannot stand back and stay silent. We cannot make excuses. We cannot look the other way simply because the person causing harm is someone we know… or even someone we love. Because sometimes, the hardest truth is this, those responsible for harm aren’t always strangers. Sometimes they are in our families. Our friendship circles. Our workplaces. They might be our parents. Our children. Our colleagues. Our friends. And real change only happens when we are brave enough to hold people accountable, not just support those affected, but address the behaviour of those causing harm. That’s not easy. It’s uncomfortable. It challenges relationships. But it is necessary. Because education is not just about awareness, it’s about responsibility. Responsibility to speak up. To question. To intervene. And to help create a culture where this behaviour is no longer excused, hidden, or minimised.
If we want a future where fewer people have to leave in silence… then we have to be part of building that change. And that starts with every one of us."