Shadow Work Solutions

Shadow Work Solutions From Self-Discovery to Self-Mastery: Evidence-based Story Image Therapy Shadow Work®
www.drtoulagordillo.com

Shadow Work Solutions is a holistic health organisation, supported by scientific research and lived experience. It was developed by Dr Toula Gordillo, a licensed Clinical psychologist and Jungian psychotherapist, in response to an identified need to go deeper than what regular teaching and counselling methods allow. Based on her experience of teaching and counselling others for over thirty years, as well as her own personal experience, Dr Toula found that to truly heal a person's unresolved issues (generally deep-seated and originating from childhood or the adolescent years), shadow work is necessary. Unable to find evidence-based, scientifically supported shadow work methods to support her own shadow work, Dr Toula began (unconsciously at first) creating her own. She began researching Jung's concept of the shadow self, and intuitively knew that she had to do adolescent shadow work on herself. That is, healing her unresolved issues that originated during her teenage years, and that caused her significant pain as an adult. She began using the Story Image Therapy (SIT®) tools that she had created for others, to heal herself. Today, her method is called Story Image Therapy Shadow Work™ (or SIT Shadow Work for short), and her organisation, Shadow Work Solutions, has helped literally hundreds of people to know themselves more deeply and to find answers from their own unconscious. For more information, please see www.drtoulagordillo.com or www.shadoworksolutions.com

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The Family Shadow SelfEvery family carries a shadow self—a mix of unspoken emotions, inherited habits, and unconscious r...
03/11/2025

The Family Shadow Self
Every family carries a shadow self—a mix of unspoken emotions, inherited habits, and unconscious roles passed down through generations. A parent’s control can become a child’s fear of failure; a grandparent’s silence can turn into emotional distance. These patterns repeat until someone becomes aware enough to change them.
The family shadow often appears in everyday struggles: constant tension, guilt-driven giving or pretending everything is fine. It keeps us loyal to the old family story, even when it no longer serves us.
Frog and Scorpion in the Living Room explores how families can bring light to these hidden patterns. In Story Image Therapy (SIT®), the Living Room represents connection—the space where we share truth, set boundaries, and practice empathy.
When we face the family shadow together, we begin to replace guilt and control with understanding and genuine love. Healing doesn’t make a perfect family—it makes a more conscious one.

The family shadow is how we see ourselves... the patterns and archetypes we identify with as children. Then, as an adult...
01/11/2025

The family shadow is how we see ourselves... the patterns and archetypes we identify with as children. Then, as an adult, these become out of balance as we over-identify with them. The result? Our addictive shadow creates all sorts of problems for us as we take on unhealthy roles, behaviours, things we want to escape but don't know how. This is the subject of the upcoming Frog and Scorpion in the Dark Room soon available on Amazon.

Want to know more about your shadow? Look at the person you married (or partnered with in life) and project 20 years. Wh...
30/10/2025

Want to know more about your shadow? Look at the person you married (or partnered with in life) and project 20 years. What have you been through? What would you have done differently? What have you learned?

Legendary investor Warren Buffett says your success depends on one crucial but less obvious choice.

The shadow is our greatest teacher, if we care to listen!
29/10/2025

The shadow is our greatest teacher, if we care to listen!

Technically, Jung called it the unconscious (not subconscious) as it us unconscious to us -- meaning we are not consciou...
27/10/2025

Technically, Jung called it the unconscious (not subconscious) as it us unconscious to us -- meaning we are not consciously aware of its influence. It's also not under, below or less than our conscious mind. In fact; it is all around us and its influence is far greater than what our conscious mind is capable of achieving. It is when we reach the unconscious theta brain wave that the greatest changes are made possible.

Coming Soon! Frog and Scorpion in the Dark RoomSick of repeating the same addictive patterns and getting the same result...
25/10/2025

Coming Soon! Frog and Scorpion in the Dark Room

Sick of repeating the same addictive patterns and getting the same results? This soon-to-be published revealing book uses the power of archetypes, storytelling and symbolic imagery to help you see the compulsive habits that keep running your life — and, more importantly, how to change them.

If you’re ready to break the cycle and face your addictive shadow self, this is the perfect companion to Frog and Scorpion in the Dream Room. Both books together offer a clear, insightful guide to permanent growth and transformation!

💡 Step into the Dark Room… travel through the Dream Room... and step out free.

If you want to talk to the unconscious, and bring about permanent changes on a deeper level, then use the language of ou...
25/10/2025

If you want to talk to the unconscious, and bring about permanent changes on a deeper level, then use the language of our unconscious to talk to it. The unconscious reveals its language to us every day through our dreams, and the language is symbolic stories & images! :)

Standing in the ego basically means that while we are maintaining our position outwardly, we are not looking introspecti...
23/10/2025

Standing in the ego basically means that while we are maintaining our position outwardly, we are not looking introspectively.... and not growing or changing. We have to look inwards for transformation and healing.

So, just for fun, i asked google this morning, "What is SIT Shadow Work?" Less than 3 seconds later, here is what AI gav...
22/10/2025

So, just for fun, i asked google this morning, "What is SIT Shadow Work?" Less than 3 seconds later, here is what AI gave me. Amazing!!
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SIT Shadow Work™ is an advanced form of shadow work rooted in Carl Jung's concept of the shadow self, which refers to the unconscious aspects of the personality that the conscious ego does not identify in itself.

While regular shadow work aims to help individuals recognize unresolved unconscious issues, SIT Shadow Work™ goes further by integrating these unconscious elements—such as fear, anger, loneliness, or spite—into a more balanced and conscious self.

These emotions are often symbolized in the method as 'fearful frog' or 'stinging scorpion' motivations or behaviors.

Developed by Dr. Toula Gordillo, SIT Shadow Work™ is grounded in over fifteen years of Jungian action research, clinical and academic practice, and doctoral research in psychology and creative arts.

It incorporates Story Image Therapy (SIT®), a psychodynamic method that uses stories and images—drawn from ancient oral and written traditions, as well as modern digital formats—to facilitate healing and self-understanding.

The method is transpersonal in nature, integrating spiritual and philosophical elements from Stoic and Taoist natural law traditions, which research suggests contribute to better mental health.

The SIT program is designed to help individuals of all ages work through childhood and adolescent complexes, particularly those stemming from unresolved emotional pain experienced during childhood or teenage years, such as feelings of abandonment, inadequacy, or confusion. If not addressed during adolescence, these psychological wounds can lie dormant and resurface when triggered by later life events, often leading to irrational or overreactive behaviors.

SIT Shadow Work™ helps individuals confront and integrate these hidden aspects of themselves, including unconscious societal influences and collective memories, to achieve greater self-awareness and emotional balance

The approach is supported by case examples and preliminary evidence, including the effectiveness of stories like *The Frog and The Scorpion* in improving mental health and behavioral outcomes in youth.

It is also applied in educational, medical, and corporate settings, with tools such as the Frog and Scorpion in the Boardroom designed to guide personal and professional transformation The method is part of a broader certification program for practitioners seeking to become certified Story Image Therapy coaches, counsellors and therapists.

Something to consider....https://www.facebook.com/share/1BqqaWdRhZ/
18/09/2025

Something to consider....

https://www.facebook.com/share/1BqqaWdRhZ/

Good food for thought. Your shadow is yours alone, and needs to be worked through or we are destined to keep repeating old patterns.

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