08/02/2026
Here's an example of how people pleasing can look. It could be avoiding confrontation, saying sorry a lot, being the scapegoat in the family, choosing the career our parents want, saying yes to things we don't want to, seeking external validation from bosses or parents, feeling guilt when we feel we haven't met others' expectations, constantly thinking "what will people think?" and avoiding judgement.
No matter the situation, we can break out of the pattern, feel better about ourselves, and live life more in line with ourselves. Reach out if this is something you'd like help with!