13/10/2025
I have only just learnt that there is a World Menopause Day on October 18th ❗️and
whether it has been a type of cognitive bias ( a frequency illusion due to the fact I still have menopausal symptoms 4 years post partial hysterectomy 😬) or the fact that more women have the ( hard won) opportunity to speak of the issues the affect our gender .. the menopausal transition ( peri and post ) is being referenced in a multitude of spaces .
And for this I am grateful.
Where once it was a topic that was never referred to ( perhaps only the urgent opening of windows in my grandmothers time ) or it was minimised and dismissed as “women’s problems” …we are beginning to have the very necessary conversations around this pivotal and powerful time.
The above piece was actually written for Women’s Health week and although short, I feel that I have captured something that remains true for all women, at any age and stage.
*Trigger warning ⚠️
It was my dear friend and naturopathic menopause specialist Sally Mathrick who first alerted me to the tragic statistic that from the ages of 50-54 , women have an age specific risk of su***de.
There are many potential reasons for this increase -including the complex interplay of hormonal chaos with impaired neurotransmitter functioning, metabolic imbalance , increased familial stressors ( including care of ageing relatives simultaneously supporting offspring through exams/ HSC/ university) , financial challenges and health issues -all the while trying to reframe ageing in a society that worships youth.
It remains true that we need to speak more kindly to ourselves, lean into our support and connections, value our wisdom and embrace this time to reset .
Seeking out positive women’s voices who can help to educate and encourage has been very helpful to me.
Women like Sally , .mindypelz and are some examples of thought leaders whose approach is both holistic and compassionate ❤️🩹.