14/04/2026
Many trauma therapists carry an invisible pressure in session.
They are striving to be helpful, insightful, reflective, and empathetic
They track well, traversing each moment, trying to resonate, containing and framing the session.
This is practice SHOULD move the therapy along, move toward progress...
BUT sometimes the pressure to be a “GOOD THERAPIST” is exactly what creates the stuckness and missed moments with their clients.
They lose their realness, their authenticity.
Clients will sense the vigilance, the need to do right
And unfortunately, half the time that’s the same relational dynamic their trauma stems from...
Come learn about attachment but not as you know it, as it shows up for the therapeutic relationship