02/11/2025
Children don’t come into the world worrying about how they look. They arrive curious, playful, and completely at ease in their bodies. They eat when they’re hungry, rest when they’re tired, move for the joy of it, and express every feeling freely.
But somewhere along the way, this natural connection begins to change. Subtle messages from the world around them start to seep in — that certain bodies are better than others, that thinness equals worth, that food has moral value, that how they’re seen matters more than how they feel.
These messages don’t just shape how a child sees their body — they shape how they feel inside their body. They create a subtle disconnection between mind and body, between inner experience and outer expectation.
As a psychologist and hypnotherapist, I often see how early these beliefs take root. Adults come to therapy wondering why they feel so self-critical, why they can’t relax around food, why their sense of worth feels so fragile. And often, when we explore deeper, we find a younger version of them who absorbed the belief that they needed to look a certain way to be loved, accepted, or safe.
Read on about letting go of childhood beliefs and re-discover self-acceptance.
https://janinerod.com/let-go-of-childhood-beliefs-and-re-discover-self-acceptance/