20/07/2025
Creating a calm space for a loved one for their final days can be achieved by just a few simple steps; whether this be in hospital, aged care facility or at home.
Prioritise the persons comfort and dignity.
Keep the space quiet where possible.
Soft dim lighting/ bedside lamp or natural light.
Declutter the space, minimise medical equipment where possible.
Play gentle or favourite music-optional.
Ensure temperature in room is comfortable- not too hot or too cold.
Keep person comforted with any favourite items such as own pillow or blanket, photos etc
Use of aromatherapy/ room sprays if your person enjoys aromatherapy.
Use soft quiet voices, turn down or sound off mobile phones.
Gentle massage of your loved one’s hands or feet.
Reassure your loved one that they are not alone. You may wish to speak of your love and gratitude for them, reassuring them that you will always remember them, you will speak their name and that you will never forget them.
Create a space that is nurturing for your loved one and visitors.
This is also a good time to express all of the ~ thank you, i love you, i am sorry, please forgive me or anything else you feel.
Remembering to take care of yourself at this time too, keeping hydrated, eat, small breaks where possible and do whatever it is that nurtures you at this tender time.
