17/04/2026
Honestly, it’s true. It’s why when someone converses with me about something and asks my opinion I give it without the purpose of that person needing to follow through or a even a ‘I told you so’ if the advice seems likes it hasn’t landed. People know what they need, their own mind knows what they could probably tell you what they need BUT we still end up in the same cycles. It may not be within there capacity to stop if an unfinished trauma cycle isn’t finished…
Sound familiar? This could be your nervous system in charge, it keeps putting you in these cycles, dynamics, relationships with hope of a different outcome. Sad thing is the trigger cycles usually replicate the same outcome as the core cycle itself trying to close because our nervous system is looking for the closure in the same places.
There is a way out. Somatic Awareness can help up gain insight to what need we are trying to be filled, an unmet need from childhood? A unmet need passed down in our parent nervous system? What ever it is let’s explore together.
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Please note: what I share here is for guidance and self-reflection only. It is not a replacement for therapy. If something resonates deeply, I encourage you to reach out to a trauma-trained somatic therapist for support. You can only get so much information in an Instagram post, as always somatic work is a many layered therapy.
***rtherapist