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25/01/2026

🧠What is Alice in Wonderland Syndrome (AIWS)? 🤔

Have you ever felt your body suddenly grow enormous… or the room shrink away from you… or time itself slip out of rhythm?

For most people, perception feels solid. Reliable. Trustworthy.
But for some, perception occasionally tilts, stretches, enlarges, shrinks, or slips sideways into something uncanny.

This experience has a name 👉 Alice in Wonderland Syndrome (AIWS) And despite the whimsical title, there is nothing imaginary about it.

🧠 AWIS is a rare but very real neuropsychiatric condition in which the brain’s normal mechanisms for integrating sensory information temporarily break down. The result is a cascade of perceptual distortions that can affect vision, body awareness, spatial orientation, and even the flow of time itself, all while the person remains fully conscious and aware that something strange is happening.

👉This is not psychosis.
👉This is not fantasy.
👉This is the nervous system misfiring in exquisitely specific ways.

A Syndrome Named After a Story… That May Have Been a Symptom

👓 The term Alice in Wonderland Syndrome was coined in 1955 by British psychiatrist John Todd, who noticed that certain neurological patients described experiences eerily similar to the transformations in Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland.

✅Objects shrinking.
✅Bodies stretching.
✅Limbs growing massive.
✅Time speeding up or slowing down.

What makes this more than a clever metaphor is the growing historical evidence that Lewis Carroll himself (Charles Lutwidge Dodgson) likely suffered from severe migraines accompanied by perceptual auras. His diaries describe visual and bodily disturbances that modern neurologists now recognise as classic migraine phenomena.

Before Todd gave the syndrome a name, these symptoms appeared scattered throughout medical literature for over a century. They surfaced in reports of hysteria in the 1800s, in soldiers with occipital injuries after the World Wars, and in early neurology texts describing bizarre distortions no one quite knew how to classify.

AIWS unified what had previously been fragments.

What Actually Happens in Alice in Wonderland Syndrome?

AIWS is best understood as a distortion of perception rather than a hallucination.

🧠The brain is receiving real sensory input.
🧠But it is mis-scaling it.

Clinicians describe AIWS as a “third category” of perceptual disturbance. Not hallucinations, which occur without stimuli. Not simple illusions, which misinterpret stimuli. But something deeper.

A distortion of the sensory signal itself.

The Most Common Experiences Include:
👁️ Visual Distortions (Metamorphopsias)

Micropsia – objects appear much smaller than they are

Macropsia – objects appear abnormally large

Pelopsia – things feel uncomfortably close

Teleopsia – things seem impossibly far away

Prosopometamorphopsia – facial features warp while the rest of the face remains normal

Kinetopsia – still objects appear to move

People often describe the world as looking like a badly calibrated camera lens, or a funhouse mirror with surgical precision.

🧍 Somaesthetic Distortions (Body Schema Disorders)

This is where AIWS becomes profoundly unsettling.

Some people feel:

Their hands balloon to enormous proportions

Their head becomes massive and heavy

Their body shrinks to a childlike size

Their limbs no longer feel attached correctly

A strange doubling, as if there are two bodies at once

These experiences are called macrosomatognosia (feeling enlarged) and microsomatognosia (feeling reduced). They arise from disruptions in the brain’s internal map of the body, known as the body schema.

Importantly, people experiencing this usually know their body hasn’t changed. But knowing doesn’t stop the sensation.

The feeling is real.
The perception is compelling.
The brain insists.

⏳ Time Distortions

AIWS can also warp time itself.

Some report:

Everything moving in fast-forward

Time dragging painfully slow

Short moments feeling endlessly long

A bizarre sense that time is looping or slipping sideways

These temporal distortions often occur alongside visual or bodily changes, suggesting a deeper disruption of how the brain synchronises experience.

Who Gets Alice in Wonderland Syndrome?

AIWS is far more common than most people realise.

Clinical case reports suggest it appears most often in children and adolescents, with an average onset around age 9. But non-clinical studies paint a startling picture.

Up to 30 percent of adolescents report at least one experience that resembles AIWS.

Most never seek medical help because:

The episodes are brief

They resolve on their own

People assume it’s imagination

Or they’re afraid of being labeled “crazy”

In clinical settings:

Children often develop AIWS after viral infections, especially Epstein-Barr virus

Adults most commonly experience it in relation to migraine, particularly vestibular migraine

Men and women are affected at roughly equal rates, and in nearly half of all cases, symptoms eventually disappear entirely.

Modern neuroimaging has transformed our understanding of AIWS.

The syndrome is now linked to dysfunction in a critical neural junction called the temporoparietal-occipital carrefour (TPO-C), where vision, body sensation, and spatial orientation converge.

Other key players include:

The precuneus, involved in body awareness and self-location

The posterior parietal cortex, essential for spatial scaling

The thalamus, the brain’s central sensory relay station

In some cases, damage to the right thalamic ventral posterolateral nucleus produces chronic, almost delusional feelings of bodily enlargement, even when the person can see their body is unchanged.

This is not imagination.

This is circuitry.

In migraine-related AIWS, the likely culprit is cortical spreading depression, a wave of altered neural activity that temporarily silences parts of the brain’s perceptual network. When this wave passes through regions responsible for size, distance, and timing, Wonderland emerges.

Why AIWS Is So Often Misunderstood

One of the greatest challenges with Alice in Wonderland Syndrome is diagnosis.

Because symptoms are bizarre yet consciousness remains clear, people are often misdiagnosed with:

Anxiety disorders

Dissociative disorders

Psychosis

Or told “it’s just stress”

AIWS belongs in the same family as other paroxysmal sensory conditions like:

Exploding Head Syndrome

Isolated sleep paralysis

Certain migraine auras

All share a common feature: vivid, distressing sensory disruption in full awareness.

Causes Range From Common to Serious

AIWS is a syndrome, not a single disease, and its causes are diverse:

Viral infections

Migraine

Epilepsy

Stroke

Brain tumours

Certain medications (including topiramate and cough syrups containing dextromethorphan)

Psychedelic substances

Severe stress and sleep deprivation

This is why sudden onset in adults always warrants medical evaluation. While many cases are benign, some signal deeper neurological issues.

Treatment and Prognosis

There is no single treatment for AIWS itself.

Why Alice in Wonderland Syndrome Matters

AIWS is not just a curiosity. It is a window into how the brain constructs reality.

For those who experience it, the most powerful intervention is often being believed.

Knowing there is a name.
Knowing others have felt it.
Knowing it is neurological, not madness.

Like Alice herself, those who pass through this strange territory are not broken. They are navigating a temporary misalignment in the machinery of perception.

And modern medicine is finally learning how to read the map.

Video clip: My clip was inspired by AIWS

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18/01/2026

“I was no longer contained by myself; I had entered the vastness.”
Element: Water
Inspired by Rilke’s words, in this short clip I’m exploring thresholds. Some oceanic dreams
make me feel boundless and I lean towards elemental belonging.

11/01/2026

Animated version of my pen drawing from 2010. I spilt coffee and you can see a bit of the stain 🙃

06/01/2026

I Love You by Ella Wheeler Wilcox🖤

I love your lips when they’re wet with wine
And red with a wild desire;
I love your eyes when the lovelight lies
Lit with a passionate fire.
I love your arms when the warm white flesh
Touches mine in a fond embrace;
I love your hair when the strands enmesh
Your kisses against my face.

Not for me the cold, calm kiss
Of a virgin’s bloodless love;
Not for me the saint’s white bliss,
Nor the heart of a spotless dove.
But give me the love that so freely gives
And laughs at the whole world’s blame,
With your body so young and warm in my arms,
It sets my poor heart aflame.

So kiss me sweet with your warm wet mouth,
Still fragrant with ruby wine,
And say with a fervour born of the South
That your body and soul are mine.
Clasp me close in your warm young arms,
While the pale stars shine above,
And we’ll live our whole young lives away
In the joys of a living love.

New video 🎬 I Love You by Ella Wheeler Wilcox 🖤 I love your lips when they’re wet with wine    And red with a wild desir...
06/01/2026

New video 🎬 I Love You by Ella Wheeler Wilcox 🖤

I love your lips when they’re wet with wine
And red with a wild desire;
I love your eyes when the lovelight lies
Lit with a passionate fire.
I love your arms when the warm white flesh
Touches mine in a fond embrace;
I love your hair when the strands enmesh
Your kisses against my face.

Not for me the cold, calm kiss
Of a virgin’s bloodless love;
Not for me the saint’s white bliss,
Nor the heart of a spotless dove.
But give me the love that so freely gives
And laughs at the whole world’s blame,
With your body so young and warm in my arms,
It sets my poor heart aflame.

So kiss me sweet with your warm wet mouth,
Still fragrant with ruby wine,
And say with a fervour born of the South
That your body and soul are mine.
Clasp me close in your warm young arms,
While the pale stars shine above,
And we’ll live our whole young lives away
In the joys of a living love.

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02/01/2026

🧠 The Cult of the Click: Psychology of Rage-Bait Content Creators and Engagement Farming

Once upon a recent time, the internet aspired to curiosity. One logged on to discover, to learn, to wander. Today, one logs on to brace oneself.

Somewhere between the cooking tutorials and the holiday photos, the digital world has undergone a subtle but profound shift. Attention, once captured by novelty or delight, is now harvested most efficiently through anger. Not mild irritation, mind you, but the hotter emotions: moral outrage, indignation, righteous fury. The internet, it turns out, does not merely reward interest. It rewards arousal.

This is the age of rage-bait.

Rage-bait refers to content designed not to persuade or enlighten, but to provoke. Its purpose is simple: to make you angry enough to respond. Comment. Share. Correct. Argue. The platforms count all of this as success. Anger, in this economy, is not a side effect. It is the product.

The term itself gained official recognition when Oxford University Press crowned it Word of the Year for 2025. But like most cultural ailments, it is older than its diagnosis. As early as 2002, internet users were already describing deliberate provocation on Usenet forums. What has changed is not the impulse, but the infrastructure. Algorithms now function like industrial bellows, fanning small sparks of irritation into infernos of engagement, all in service of advertising revenue.

Central to the production and success of rage-bait content is a specific psychological profile: the content creator characterised by narcissistic traits.

Narcissism is often mistaken for vanity. In fact, it is better understood as a fragile system of self-regulation. Psychologists describe it as a pattern involving inflated self-importance, a relentless hunger for admiration, and a troubling lack of empathy. What appears as confidence is frequently compensation. What looks like arrogance is often armour.

Social media, with its metrics, mirrors, and instant feedback, is uniquely well suited to this psychology. It offers what narcissistic personalities crave most: attention that feels measurable, immediate, and public.

But narcissism is not a single thing. It comes in several varieties, each with its own relationship to outrage.

😎 The Grandiose Narcissist: Status as Sport

Grandiose narcissism is the most familiar form. These individuals are bold, dominant, and unapologetically self-promotional. They experience social life as a hierarchy and assume it is their duty to climb it. According to the Status Pursuit in Narcissism (SPIN) model, every interaction is a contest: someone rises, someone falls.

On platforms like Instagram or TikTok, grandiose narcissists pursue admiration openly. They broadcast success, flaunt confidence, and perform certainty. Rage bait becomes a tool of dominance. Provocation signals fearlessness. Confidence in saying the unsayable becomes proof of superiority. If others are upset, so much the better. It means the message landed.

Criticism is met not with reflection, but with confrontation. Arrogance is not a flaw here. It is the point.

😎 The Vulnerable Narcissist: Wounds on Display

Vulnerable narcissism is quieter and more combustible. It is marked by insecurity, hypersensitivity, and a brittle sense of self-worth. These individuals experience criticism not as feedback, but as injury.

When challenged, they are prone to what psychologists call narcissistic rage: a volatile blend of shame and anger. Rage-bait, for them, is defensive. It externalises distress. By provoking others, they regain a sense of control. Outrage becomes a shield against feeling small.

Their content often centres on grievance, victimhood, or persecution. The audience is cast as hostile, cruel, or ignorant. The creator, perpetually misunderstood.

😎 The Communal Narcissist: Virtue as Theatre

Then there is communal narcissism, perhaps the most socially confusing variant. These individuals seek admiration through moral performance. They see themselves as exceptionally caring, ethical, and enlightened.

Their feeds overflow with causes, call-outs, and outrage on behalf of others. Yet the empathy is often performative. What matters most is not alleviating suffering, but being seen to oppose it. Likes become moral confirmation. Dissent becomes heresy.

Communal narcissists are especially prone to moral outrage. Anger, here, is sanctified. It signals righteousness. To disagree with them is not merely to be wrong, but to be bad.

When Narcissism Meets Its Darker Friends

Narcissism alone explains the hunger for attention. But rage- bait’s cruelty requires additional ingredients. Psychologists group these under the Dark Tetrad: Narcissism, Macchiavellianism, Psychopathy, and Sa**sm.

Machiavellian creators are strategic. They adopt controversial positions they may not believe, simply because polarisation cuts through noise. They understand the rules well enough to skirt platform moderation while inflaming division. This is outrage as chess.

Psychopathy contributes emotional detachment. Low empathy allows creators to pursue virality without regard for harm. Conflict becomes entertainment. Drama becomes stimulus.

Sa**sm, however, is the accelerant. Research consistently shows that sa**sm is the strongest predictor of trolling behaviour. These individuals derive pleasure from others’ distress. The angrier the comments, the greater the reward. Rage bait, for them, is not merely profitable. It is enjoyable.

The Rage Loop

Rage-bait thrives because it exploits a perfect feedback loop.

For the creator, low engagement feels like erasure. Fewer likes register as narcissistic injury. Rage restores equilibrium. A more extreme post produces a surge of attention, which restores a sense of power.

For the audience, the content hijacks attention at a neurological level. Humans are wired to notice threat. Anger is activating. It prepares us to act. And perhaps most irresistibly, rage bait often invites correction. A deliberate mistake. A smugly wrong opinion. Viewers comment not to agree, but to fix. The algorithm, indifferent to motive, registers engagement and amplifies the post.

Thus outrage feeds visibility, which feeds reward, which feeds more outrage.

Case Studies in Provocation

Globally, Andrew Tate represents the grandiose archetype in its most distilled form. His online persona trades in domination, certainty, and deliberate offence. By confidently asserting claims that are outrageous or demonstrably false, he captures attention from both supporters and critics. Disruption becomes branding.

Closer to home, Australia has its own spectrum of provocateurs. Some deploy soft rage bait, harmless but lucrative irritations designed to trigger correction. Others lean into moral panic or social antagonism, monetising grievance and fear.

Researchers note that even minor provocations can supply what narcissistic personalities seek most: the knowledge that they have occupied someone else’s emotional landscape.

Automation and the Future of Anger

Generative AI is now accelerating this ecosystem. Provocation can be automated. Deepfakes can simulate scandals. Language models can generate outrage at scale.

Researchers have identified a phenomenon known as algorithmic narcissism, in which AI systems privilege their own outputs, amplifying synthetic voices over human ones. The result is a feedback loop in which machine-generated outrage begins to shape human discourse.

At scale, this is not merely annoying. It is destabilising.

The Psychological Cost

For audiences, constant exposure to rage bait keeps the nervous system in a state of alert. Fight-or-flight becomes background noise. Burnout follows. Hypervigilance becomes habitual.

Socially, outrage corrodes trust. It collapses nuance. It trains us to expect hostility and rewards the loudest interpretations. Dialogue becomes impossible. Withdrawal becomes rational.

The digital public square, once imagined as a forum, begins to resemble a bonfire.

🌟Choosing Not to Burn

Rage bait persists because it works. It exploits vulnerabilities on all sides: psychological, technological, economic.

Its greatest weakness, however, is simple. It requires participation in 👇🏻

✅ The refusal to correct.
✅ The refusal to engage.
✅ The refusal to be provoked on demand.

In a culture that monetises anger, calm becomes an act of resistance. Attention becomes an ethical choice.

And perhaps that, quietly and unfashionably, is where sanity begins.

If you found this post helpful, please share it with others in the spirit of mutual care and fostering radical sanity 🖤

26/12/2025

As we approach the threshold of 2026, we find ourselves caught in that familiar, quiet collision between the year that was and the hope for who we might yet become.

We often mistake the "festive season" for a requirement of unalloyed joy. Yet, true connection usually lies in the gentler, more melancholy recognition of our shared vulnerabilities. We do not need perfect celebrations; we need the courage to be known in our complexities.

For the Coming Year
May we stop pursuing the mirage of a "perfect life" and instead cultivate the wisdom to appreciate a "sufficiently good" one. In 2026, let us wish for:

The patience to endure our own contradictions.

The insight to see that those who annoy us are usually just in pain.

The resilience to find beauty in the ordinary—a sunny morning, a shared meal, or a moment of honest self-reflection.

May your new year be defined not by grand achievements, but by the small, quiet triumphs of kindness and self-understanding.

Season’s greetings to you all 💕

In life the body can have many holidays, but the spirit has so few. The body's holidays are simple: s*x, sun, beach, sea...
19/10/2025

In life the body can have many holidays, but the spirit has so few. The body's holidays are simple: s*x, sun, beach, sea, sleep. But the spirit's holidays are rarer and are more important than those of the body. The spirit's holiday help the inner distillation, and bring about our true transformation from chrysalis to butterfly, from weakness to wisdom, from saplinghood to strength 🖤

🎨 digital art titled Contemplation

🎬 How do I love thee? (Sonnet 43) by Elizabeth Barrett Browning 1806 –1861 🖤How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.I ...
28/08/2025

🎬 How do I love thee? (Sonnet 43) by Elizabeth Barrett Browning
1806 –1861 🖤

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

https://youtu.be/zCTl52t6Mrc?si=_tZDJ-ZD7Raa-vtU

🎬 *How do I love thee? (Sonnet 43) by Elizabeth Barrett Browning* 1806 –1861How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.I love thee to the depth and breadth a...

Dreaming of Jaguars? 🐾 Here's What Your Subconscious Is Telling YouEver dreamt of a jaguar? This isn't just any dream; i...
09/08/2025

Dreaming of Jaguars? 🐾 Here's What Your Subconscious Is Telling You

Ever dreamt of a jaguar? This isn't just any dream; it’s a powerful message from your subconscious and a symbol with deep cultural roots. For many Indigenous cultures in Central and South America, the jaguar is a spiritual guide, representing the ruler of the night, the underworld, and hidden cosmic mysteries. Dreaming of one could mean you’re embarking on a journey into the unknown or exploring parts of your own psyche.

Psychologically, the jaguar often represents your untapped power and primal instincts. It's the Jungian "shadow self"—the suppressed parts of your personality, both good and bad, that are ready to be integrated. Seeing a jaguar in a dream might be your mind's way of telling you to reconnect with your intuition, embrace your inner strength, and confront your fears head-on.

This magnificent creature symbolizes transformation and rebirth. It’s a sign that you have the courage to overcome challenges and the potential to emerge from a difficult situation stronger than before. Next time a jaguar stalks through your dreams, pay attention—it's an invitation to step into your full power.

🖤 How can we decode dreams where serpents appear frequently? The serpent represents a primal, non rational energy. It ca...
09/07/2025

🖤 How can we decode dreams where serpents appear frequently? The serpent represents a primal, non rational energy. It can be both divine and chthonic.

🎧 The overarching theme of this podcast is the multivalent symbolism and profound psychological significance of the serpent archetype across diverse cultures and throughout history. The lecture emphasises that the serpent, far from being a simple biological entity, functions as a powerful symbol in dreams, myths, religions, and even modern psychology, often representing opposing forces or ideas such as good and evil, life and death, healing and poison. Hannah advocates for a deeper understanding of this archetype, arguing that its persistent appearance in human experience suggests a fundamental psychological truth or connection to the "totally other" within the psyche.

🎧 Content created in a podcast format
📚Source: Excerpts from "The Serpent: Notes on the Biological Background - Barbara Hannah" (🎙️Lecture 2: November 4, 1957)

📚Source: Excerpts from "The Serpent: Notes on the Biological Background - Barbara Hannah" (🎙️Lecture 2: November 4, 1957)✍️ Excerpts from Hannah's lecture ...

🎬New video on A Neurobiological Perspective: The Selfish-Selfless Spectrum 🧠 🌟Source: Psychopathy to Altruism: Neurobiol...
02/07/2025

🎬New video on A Neurobiological Perspective: The Selfish-Selfless Spectrum 🧠

🌟Source: Psychopathy to Altruism: Neurobiology of the Selfish–Selfless Spectrum - James W. H. Sonne1* and Don M. Gash2

✅ Content created in a podcast format

🎧 This scholarly article explores the neurobiology of the selfish-selfless spectrum in human behavior, examining the interplay of genetics and "neuron-based heredity" (social/cultural influences). It contrasts the extremes of criminal psychopathy (marked by emotional dysfunction and reduced empathy) with zealous altruism (characterized by heightened empathy and compassion). The text explains how specific brain regions like the amygdala, prefrontal cortex, and reward systems, along with neurohormones like oxytocin and vasopressin, contribute to these behaviors. Ultimately, the article argues that while genetic predispositions exist, environmental factors and cognitive interventions like mindfulness can significantly influence an individual's position on this spectrum.



🌟Source: Psychopathy to Altruism: Neurobiology of the Selfish–Selfless SpectrumJames W. H. Sonne1* and Don M. Gash21 Department of Health Professions, Unive...

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