15/02/2026
The day after Valentine’s Day, when you’re cranky because he didn’t buy roses. Let’s talk about it 😄 Because here’s what I know from years of working with relationships, that most couples don’t fight about roses. They fight about what roses represent. Roses can symbolise:
“Do you think of me?”
“Am I a priority?”
“Do you notice what matters to me?”
“Do you care enough to make effort?”
So if you’re feeling irritated, snappy, disappointed, or quietly hurt, before you explode (or emotionally freeze), try this:
The 3-step repair conversation:
1) Name the feeling (without blame):
“I felt a bit sad yesterday.”
2) Name the meaning:
“It’s not really about flowers. It’s about feeling considered.”
3) Make a clear request (for next time):
“Next year, I’d love something thoughtful, even if it’s small.”
Because the truth is that your partner can’t meet a need you never name. And resentment is just unspoken longing wearing a trench coat. 😅 You deserve love that feels thoughtful. And you also deserve communication that doesn’t turn into a war.
If you need support with this, I offer:
✨ Relationship Coaching
💗 Heart Healing
🔮 Love Tarot Readings
DM me LOVE and I’ll guide you.
