20/11/2025
Nearly 27% of medical complaints cases are the result of communication failures between doctors and patients.
I’ve had my share of “I could’ve done that better.” moments in 2025 when I’ve upset patients without intending to.
Equally I’ve seen patients who are angry and upset at other HCPs for what they saw as substandard care when it possibly was not.
Whether for , or another issue, I tend to:
- gather as much information as I can (clinics can be fairly disinterested I’ve found)
- encourage the patient to return to their original Dr/clinic first even if only to understand if they crossed wires
- gather any relevant information for the next doctor eg drugs; incomplete cancer excision drawings to help themselves
- allow for the possibility that when we feel attacked, shamed, judged or panicked, the brain STOPS LISTENING.
It’s not a good time to make permanent decisions that may not serve us.
Continuity of care matters.
And the relationship between you and your doctor is a two way street. We rely on you telling us when we mess up so we can do better, much as we hope we can expect you to hold up your end of the bargain.