28/08/2025
Posted • We’ve been sold the biggest lie in parenting: that love is enough.
Love matters. Of course it does.
But love without safety? Creates fear.
Love without presence? Creates emptiness.
Love without regulation? Creates chaos.
Our kids don’t just need our love.
They need our healing.
They need our regulation.
They need our willingness to do the work so our love actually feels safe to receive.
That’s the part no one tells you.
And that’s why so many families are hurting—while saying, “But I love my kids.”
It’s not about whether you love them.
It’s about whether your love lands as safety.
Parenting is not instinct. It’s responsibility. And when we rise to it, everything changes.