17/11/2025
Where Are You Abandoning Yourself?
Self-abandonment is one of the deepest patterns we carry.
It’s subtle.
It’s unconscious.
And it shows up in the small choices we make every day.
So pause…
Take a breath…
And ask yourself…
Where am I abandoning my body, my emotions, my mind, and my soul?
🦋 Physically~
Where are you abandoning your physical body?
Are you ignoring the simple things your body needs to feel nourished, energised, and alive?
✨skipping movement
✨choosing low-quality foods
✨ignoring your need for pure water and hydration
✨relying on stimulants, coffee, sugar, alcohol, to get through the day
Your body is always communicating.
Are you listening?
🦋 Emotionally~
Where are you abandoning your emotional needs?
Are you giving yourself emotional safety, or are you bottling things up until your body carries the weight?
✨not expressing how you truly feel
✨suppressing emotions to keep the peace
✨disconnecting from your inner world
• storing unprocessed feelings inside your body
Your emotions are not the problem —
abandoning them is.
🦋 Mentally~
Where are you abandoning your mental wellbeing?
✨staying in toxic environments
✨surrounding yourself with people who drain your energy
✨consuming news, drama, chaos
✨overstimulating your nervous system with scrolling
✨ignoring the thoughts that need reflection
Your mind needs clarity, space, and time to process.
🦋 Soulfully
Where are you abandoning your soul?
✨staying in places that feel limiting or heavy
✨ignoring where your soul feels expansive
✨clinging to relationships or timelines your soul has outgrown
✨disconnecting from nature, stillness, and truth
✨forgetting the practices that bring you home to yourself
Your soul speaks through longing,
for truth, connection, meaning, freedom, and alignment.
Are you honouring what it’s asking for?
✨ Self-abandonment ends the moment you choose to return to yourself.✨
To your body.
To your emotions.
To your mind.
To your soul.
To your truth.
We dive deeper into self abandonment in The Embodied Women’s Program. Dm EMBODY if this calls you.