Life Changes Tamworth

Life Changes Tamworth Where pregnancy, motherhood & perinatal mental health meet. Holistic, heart-led counselling & support for your journey. ๐ŸŒธ

Providing person-centred support & care for women trying to conceive & in the ante-natal & postpartum periods.

I work with parents adjusting to life after having a baby and I see and hear this so often:Two people. Two nervous syste...
25/02/2026

I work with parents adjusting to life after having a baby and I see and hear this so often:

Two people.

Two nervous systems.

Two different ways of experiencing intimacy.

Different doesnโ€™t mean wrong. It just means being loving and patient, getting to know each other again in this new part of your lives.๐Ÿ’›.

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๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’•๐’”:๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’” ๐‘พ๐’† ๐‘ซ๐’๐’โ€™๐’• ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’๐’Œ ๐‘จ๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’•๐™„๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข๐™–๐™˜๐™ฎ Planting a little seed of normality for physical intimacy ๐ŸŒฑ.After...
23/02/2026

๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’•๐’”:
๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’” ๐‘พ๐’† ๐‘ซ๐’๐’โ€™๐’• ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’๐’Œ ๐‘จ๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’•

๐™„๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข๐™–๐™˜๐™ฎ

Planting a little seed of normality for physical intimacy ๐ŸŒฑ.

After a baby, desire doesnโ€™t always match up.

You might feel too exhausted, sore, or just โ€œoffโ€ to want s*x or be intimate with your partner.

Your partner might be ready for closeness, and when you canโ€™t meet them there, it can feel like rejection.

This mismatch is incredibly common. Around 80โ€“85% of new parents notice changes in their libido and s*xual relationship in the first year.

Itโ€™s not because love is fading. Itโ€™s because your body, your hormones, your energy, and your identity are all shifting at once.

Itโ€™s a stage.
Itโ€™s common.
Itโ€™s temporary.

And itโ€™s manageable when you understand whatโ€™s happening, communicate openly, and find ways to reconnect. Layers of intimacy include talking, trust, touch, hugs, or holding hands.

Preparing for a baby isnโ€™t just about nappies and prams. Itโ€™s about preparing your relationship and your physical connection too.

If youโ€™d like to explore these changes and transitions in more depth, Iโ€™ll be running a small workshop soon.

You can comment below with โ€˜๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ผ๐’”โ€™ or send me an email to be the first to hear about it๐Ÿ’›.

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๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’•๐’”: ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’” ๐‘พ๐’† ๐‘ซ๐’๐’โ€™๐’• ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’๐’Œ ๐‘จ๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’•๐˜™๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฑPlanting a little seed of normality for becoming a parent๐ŸŒฑ.We...
20/02/2026

๐‘ฉ๐’†๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’•๐’”:
๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’” ๐‘พ๐’† ๐‘ซ๐’๐’โ€™๐’• ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’๐’Œ ๐‘จ๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’•

๐˜™๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ

Planting a little seed of normality for becoming a parent๐ŸŒฑ.

We don't talk enough about this.

The first few months after having a baby can be beautifulโ€ฆ and also really hard and stressful.

Feeding struggles.
Settling struggles.
Money pressures.
Exhaustion like youโ€™ve never known before.

And yesโ€ฆ arguing with your partner more than usual.

That doesnโ€™t mean your relationship is failing. Or you are heading for a divorce.

In fact, did you know around 92% ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฌ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ง๐™š๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™™๐™ž๐™จ๐™จ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™จ๐™›๐™ž๐™š๐™™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™›๐™ž๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™š๐™–๐™ง.

Thatโ€™s not because they chose the wrong person. Itโ€™s because sleep deprivation, identity shifts, hormones, and the steepest learning curve of your life all hit at once.

Itโ€™s a stage.
Itโ€™s common.
And itโ€™s manageable when you understand whatโ€™s happening and have the right tools.

Preparing for a baby isnโ€™t just about nappies and prams. Itโ€™s about preparing your relationship too.

Does any of this resonate with you? Iโ€™d love to hear one thing you werenโ€™t expecting in those first months.

More on this soon ๐Ÿ’›

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14/02/2026

Valentineโ€™s Day doesnโ€™t have to be about roses, romance or doing what everyone else does.

Sometimes itโ€™s about being kinder to ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡.

๐‘บ๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐’๐’๐’—๐’† can look like taking five minutes to rest, setting boundaries, asking for help, or simply getting through the day.

Pause.
Take one slow breath in.
Place a hand on your chest.
And let it out gently.

Thatโ€™s enough for today.

Take care. Be kind to yourself. ๐Ÿ’›

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Ok okโ€ฆ I know Iโ€™m often the first to say AI can be a bit of a slippery slope๐Ÿ˜….(And yes, people using it instead of thera...
11/02/2026

Ok okโ€ฆ I know Iโ€™m often the first to say AI can be a bit of a slippery slope๐Ÿ˜….

(And yes, people using it instead of therapy still genuinely worries me. That's for a whole other post!!!)

But this? This was just for a bit of fun to see what Chatty would come up with.

I jumped on the latest AI trend and asked Chatty to create a caricature of me in my workspace and it made me smile way more than I expected.

Tools arenโ€™t the problem. Replacing human connection is. And there is no technology in the world that can ever replace the energy, the emotion, the response we get when we feel connected and truly understood by another person.

๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ก ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™š๐™™๐™จ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก ๐™๐™ช๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ๐™จ, ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ, ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐Ÿ’›.

Sorry Chatty, I don't feel threatened by you..

Which one feels more โ€œmeโ€ to you?

Comment 1 (yellow) or 2 (pink) ๐Ÿ‘‡.

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When most people think about therapy, they think โ€œpsychologistโ€, lying on a couch and talking about what they are feelin...
08/02/2026

When most people think about therapy, they think โ€œpsychologistโ€, lying on a couch and talking about what they are feeling.

And while psychologists do incredible work, I really want you to know, they arenโ€™t the only professionals trained to provide therapy.

As an ๐˜ผ๐™˜๐™˜๐™ง๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก ๐™ƒ๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™Ž๐™ค๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™’๐™ค๐™ง๐™ ๐™š๐™ง, Iโ€™ll be honest, Iโ€™m tired of hearing therapy reduced to โ€œgo see a psychologistโ€, as though thatโ€™s the only valid
option for support.

๐˜ผ๐™˜๐™˜๐™ง๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก ๐™ƒ๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™Ž๐™ค๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™’๐™ค๐™ง๐™ ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ are also Medicare-recognised mental health clinicians, with extensive training in therapy, trauma, and mental health. It was an excruciating accreditation process, let me tell you!!!

The difference isnโ€™t about who is better.
Itโ€™s about approach, perspective, and fit.

Therapy works best when you feel safe, comfortable, understood, and supported.

Sometimes that connection is with a psychologist.

Sometimes itโ€™s with an ๐˜ผ๐™˜๐™˜๐™ง๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก ๐™ƒ๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™Ž๐™ค๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™’๐™ค๐™ง๐™ ๐™š๐™ง - like me.๐™Ž๐™ค๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™’๐™ค๐™ง๐™ ๐™š๐™ง - like me.

What matters most is finding someone who feels right
for you๐Ÿ’›.

Iโ€™ve shared more about this on my website in the
journal section for anyone who wants a deeper
understanding.

If youโ€™ve been unsure about starting therapy because
you didnโ€™t know your options, I'm happy to have a chat
about my approach and how I work to see if I'm a good
fit for you.

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๐ŸŒป ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™˜๐™ก๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™š๐™™ (๐™ฎ๐™š๐™จ, ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ!)If youโ€™re curious about why your child does what they do, how...
29/01/2026

๐ŸŒป ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™˜๐™ก๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™š๐™™ (๐™ฎ๐™š๐™จ, ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ!)

If youโ€™re curious about why your child does what they do, how to support their emotional world, and build a secure, connected relationship that actually works in day-to-day life, Circle of Securityยฎ Parenting programs are it. Theyโ€™re evidence-based, attachment focused, and relationship centred (not behaviour-management).

I'm always recommending this course to my clients and feel it should be mandatory as soon as we become pregnant. The good news is I've found a few free options online this February through Tresillian and wanted to share๐Ÿ‘‡.

Free online Circle of Security programs
Free 8-week online parenting course - relational, attachment-focused, and reflective for all parents.

Find more info here:
๐˜พ๐™ž๐™ง๐™˜๐™ก๐™š ๐™ค๐™› ๐™Ž๐™š๐™˜๐™ช๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ
๐Ÿ”—https://www.tresillian.org.au/courses/for-parents/circle-of-security/online-only-muswellbrook-25th-february-2026/

๐˜ฟ๐™–๐™™๐™จ ๐˜พ๐™ž๐™ง๐™˜๐™ก๐™š ๐™ค๐™› ๐™Ž๐™š๐™˜๐™ช๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ
๐Ÿ”—https://www.tresillian.org.au/courses/for-parents/dads-circle-of-security/online-only-canterbury-17th-february-2026/

If you want an easy intro while you wait for these groups to start, the Circle of Security International website has great free resources and summaries about how the model works โ€“ including graphics and explanations of the โ€œsecure baseโ€ and โ€œsafe havenโ€ parts of attachment.

๐Ÿ”—https://www.circleofsecurityinternational.com/blogs/resources/videos-for-parents

๐™€๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™—๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฌ๐™จ ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ข๐™šโœจ:

Iโ€™ll be doing the Circle of Security facilitator training in March so I can bring this beautiful way of learning and growing into my own practice and offer group classes, but I wonโ€™t be able to offer it for free (sorry). Watch this space.

I truly believe you donโ€™t have to fix parenting or our children, you get better at connection, understanding, and responding over time.

If youโ€™re curious about opportunities like this in the future, feel free to DM me and Iโ€™ll keep you in the loop๐Ÿ’›.

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26/01/2026

Wellโ€ฆ I officially survived my first country music festival with my office right in the middle of it. Growing up here, I know what the festival brings but had no idea what I was in for working right in the middle of it๐ŸŽถ!!!

Between the doof doof doof from the park over the road, buskers and stalls at the front entrance, and streets blocked off everywhere, it was a vibe let me tell you.

Some clients braved the crowds and came in for face-to-face sessions.
Some opted for telehealth.
Some rescheduled.

All of it was completely okay๐ŸŒป.

Support doesnโ€™t have to look one particular way. What matters most is doing what feels safest and most supportive for you in that moment. Iโ€™m grateful to be able to offer flexibility through telehealth, especially on weeks like this.

And yesโ€ฆ it was a little noisy but not as bad I was expecting!

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11/01/2026

๐™„๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™จ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ๐™จ during pregnancy or early parenting can feel frightening and deeply unsettling.

Thoughts you would never choose. Thoughts that donโ€™t reflect who you are.

What many people donโ€™t realise is that ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™จ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™ง๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™—๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ข๐™ค๐™ฃ for both parents, especially during times of exhaustion, hormonal change, or heightened responsibility.

Having these thoughts ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ mean you want to act on them.

It ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ mean you are a bad parent.

And it ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ mean something is wrong with you.

They are often a sign of a trauma experience and a nervous system under pressure, trying to protect what matters most. Your baby.

You are not crazy. You are not alone.

Sharing this in case someone needs to hear it today.

If intrusive thoughts are impacting your day-to-day life, pregnancy support counselling can help. Youโ€™re welcome to reach out๐Ÿ’›

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Hereโ€™s a little peek at what Iโ€™ll be offering at ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’” ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Ž๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‰ in 2026.โœจ 1:1 ๐™‹๐™š๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™„๐™ข๐™ข๐™š๐™™๐™ž...
30/12/2025

Hereโ€™s a little peek at what Iโ€™ll be offering at ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’” ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Ž๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‰ in 2026.

โœจ 1:1 ๐™‹๐™š๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ

๐™„๐™ข๐™ข๐™š๐™™๐™ž๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™–๐™ซ๐™–๐™ž๐™ก๐™–๐™—๐™ž๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ from the week of 6th January. Self-referrals or GP referrals with a Mental Health Treatment Plan welcome.

โœจ ๐˜พ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™˜๐™–๐™ก ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ

Supportive, reflective spaces for clinicians to discuss cases, challenges, and professional growth.

โœจ ๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™๐™จ ๐™˜๐™ก๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™จ

Starting next year (dates to come). If youโ€™d like to be prepared for parenthood with realistic expectations and find out about all those things no-one tells you before you have bub, these classes are for you.

Comment below or email me if youโ€™d like more info or to register your interest in any of my services๐ŸŒป.

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๐“š๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ป๐”‚๐“ท

๐Ÿ“ง admin@lifechangestamworth.com.au
www.lifechangestamworth.com.au

As the year comes to a close, Iโ€™d like to say thank you to everyone who has supported ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’” ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Ž๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‰ this year. B...
24/12/2025

As the year comes to a close, Iโ€™d like to say thank you to everyone who has supported ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’” ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Ž๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‰ this year. Both my clients trusting me with their stories and other professionals who share my passion.

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’Œ ๐’š๐’๐’–!!!

Itโ€™s a privilege to do this work and to walk alongside people in this space.

๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’‚๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’” ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Ž๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‰ will be closed from 25 December and will reopen 6 January.

Wishing you a gentle end to the year and some time to rest and reset. I know I will be ๐Ÿ’›.

See you all in 2026 to do it all over again.

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๐“š๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ป๐”‚๐“ท

www.lifechangestamworth.com.au

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3/411 Peel Street
Tamworth, NSW
2340

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Tuesday 8:30am - 3:30pm
Wednesday 8:30am - 3:30pm
Thursday 8:30am - 3:30pm

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