20/05/2021
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As I unlocked our front door on Tuesday night, balancing a crying toddler on one arm, a paper bag of takeaway in the other, and another toddler screaming behind me, I was reminded of how much within this life I am still living & discovering.
I took a moment to think ‘F, this image {insert a dishevelled, exhausted mum who’s day of work had started at 4.45am}, could easily be one of the cliche ads you see for a fast food chain - you know the ones!
& that’s where we need to reconsider our definition of health or the ‘healthiest option’.
The healthiest option for me and my family, in that moment, was the chicken & chips.
It was the removal of pressure and overwhelm of yet one more thing I had to consider or cope with - within a week that was already being filled with early starts, work travel and late night meetings.
The healthiest option needs context.
It needs to consider not only nutrients but also mental health, environmental pressure, financial stress, social support and individual capability.
When we over simplify health to only considering nutrients or movement; or when we use the term ‘no excuses’; or hold food choices with a sense of morality (good vs bad) - we forget that there is a person behind these actions.
A person that is doing their best and acting with their highest intention with the capacity, capability & strength they have in that moment.
So if you are currently in the depths of depression and unable to even consider the thought of shopping or cooking - your healthiest option may be to simply eat - something, anything.
If you are in financial stress and finding it hard to keep a roof over your head and your kids clothed, your healthiest option may be to embrace whatever the food bank has to offer.
If you are moving through trauma and find yourself simply aiming to survive the days, the healthiest option may be to use food to offer escape and comfort right now.
Health, by its very definition, is ‘a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or fragility’.
& with this in mind, our food choices can align to this also - holding a space not only for nutrients or numbers.