08/03/2026
It's International Women's Day and the UN theme is "Rights. Justice. Action" which is always fitting when you are experiencing the world as a woman or AFAB person.
I'm reflecting on my story today because I grew up in a family of the toughest women ever. My grandma had a sticker on her cleaning trolley that said "women can do anything". I'm pretty sure it was a UN sticker tbh. Lil autistic me was like "yep true" in that facts are facts way. She also had the mantra of "if you want a job done, ask a busy woman." This queen has shaped my entire life. Thank GOD. What a woman to look up and learn from!
I then studied law and realised the truly dire nature of women's rights and equality in then 21st century. I volunteered in domestic violence organisations throughout. I remember one day I got home from supporting women victim-survivors in court, anti-tattoo and all, and just thought I need a tattoo RIGHT NOW representing the power and strength of women.
Because it was the realisation that day that it's always other women and AFAB people that pick up the pieces and offer the support we need from the world. Need help moving across the country? Girl I've got you and my flights are booked. Need a nap because your baby wakes up every hour? I've read 20 million reddit threads and I'm gonna rock him better than he's ever been rocked in his life so you can sleep for 20 mins in peace. Need some side income on top of your single parenting payment? I'll find it for you.
I'm endless grateful for all the women that keep ME going. I was thinking about it yesterday, as I always am, because I'm SO grateful. I probably have 10+ women + AFAB folk who keep me going in a business sense. Isn't that so wild but also so iconic and true to womanhood? The girls get it. So if you see me as the face of whatever-this-is, you should also know ALWAYS there's 10 girlypops telling me I'm smart and to "trust your gut" and "know your worth" and EVERYTHING perfectly angelic to keep me going and thriving and succeeding. I owe it ALL to them. But also isn't it so cool and great that women and AFAB folk lift each other up so much but never in a "you owe me" way. It's just like I've got you π₯°