02/04/2026
Today I was invited into something pretty special… a matching tattoo with a 3-year-old 🦋
We’ve spent the term getting her ready for a big move - from daily life with Aunty and Nan to a new life with family far away.
Matching tattoos, lots of intentionally shared moments, and making sense of feelings along the way. Today she made sure matching tattoos were shared across Nan, Aunty and new Mummy… and that I had one too.
And this is something she’s really leaned into - easily finding sameness in our sessions across the adults who feel safe to her. Those “same as you” moments build closeness, belonging, and felt safety - especially when early life hasn’t always felt predictable or emotionally safe.
Tears may have been shared across the adults around her today - holding deep love, connection, grief, loss and celebration in tandem while reflecting on the incredible effort that’s gone into this child’s journey.
Today was our last in-clinic session. One of those endings that just feels right.
This is the kind of work that stays with you 💗