22/03/2018
Greetings to you all. Thank you for reading my post .
For many years I have spent a great deal of time looking back over my childhood and wondering why it was so difficult. I looked at this question so often and from different aspects. For example:
My place in our family and then later , in my in law family .
Also looking into my financial situation, my health, and many other issues. I have spent a great deal of time looking into my past and remembering my extended family , Aunts , Uncles , Cousins and family friends.
Because I spent so much time searching for, and healing issue's that have caused my journey to be blocked, as well as holding up my progress in healing this situation, it has brought to my mind how much time I have used of my life to do this wonderful healing.
A friend mentioned a few weeks ago how we should not live in the past. It is no good living in the past he said. Let it go and live now.
Well that is all very well for some, sure , it is.!!! However my thoughts on this subject are,
We cannot move on without first healing the past. Sure, you can try and you may well have some success. I have found by searching for the truth behind the issue or conflict that is causing you pain, with Family Healing Constellations, and then, taking timeout to do the work to heal through forgiving those involved, your life will be so much more bearable and you will move forward with very little effort.
Forgiveness is the key. Find the key by finding the ((truth)) ,do the forgiving and then you are able to let go of the past, move forward and even find your authentic self.
You will drop the shackles and fly!!!. This is the truth as I have lived. Like me, you may lose someone who won't look at the truth!!! Someone who may choose to go on believing the lie. It simply is not their time.
However You will feel so free and some people may move away from you through circumstances such as a new job. At the same time new people will become closer to you. It is wonderful, it is hard work but it is life saving and life changing work.
Peace be with you.
Nancy De Gioia
Life of Hope.