10/04/2022
I’ve just sent out this weeks letter to my lovely subscribers, but thought I’d share it here too ☺️
If this idea resonates with you, you can visit my Substack to listen to a very short guided audio practice to experience ‘softening the edges of the posture’.
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There can be a lot of instruction when we take a yoga posture. Checking the alignment of your knee, or if your shoulders are shrugging up to your ears for example. While alignment instruction is important in some case to keep the body safe, it can also cause us to hold on or to tighten too much.
This is where the idea of ‘softening the edges of the posture’ comes in. The idea is, take the instruction into account, understand it but then soften the edges, let go a little. That’s when the energy can flow, and we feel lighter in the pose.
This is instead of forcing the posture, holding tight and being too fixated on getting it right.
We can still be in a strong and powerful posture, but we are easing into it.
I love to consider the ideas we learn in yoga and how they can be transferred to living your life off the mat.
We can consider this idea with many aspects of our lives. For the purpose of this post, let’s think about eating healthily, for example. It’s important to know the facts about what to eat and why. But if we become too focussed or fixated on it, most of us know that isn’t healthy and defeats the original intention. However, if we approach it from a ‘softening the edges’ perspective, then we would still see the value of healthy eating and embody what we learn but then let go a little and not be so fixated on it.
It’s not to say that we suddenly turn to a diet of processed foods ( we can still be in that powerful posture, remember) but we let go and be more gentle on ourselves.
And many of us also know that is usually a more healthy approach.
I know in the world of parenting there are many areas where we could soften a little. Screen time, sugar intake, bedtime routines to name a couple. Perhaps in your career or work you could let go just a bit? Or maybe there’s a part of your persona that you have become to identify with, can you soften that too?