11/02/2026
Hearing these words reflected back to me by someone I admire and deeply respect hit home.
"Sarah, it is time now to be kind to yourself, to give love to yourself. You are a kind person, you deserve love and kindness".
These words pulled at my heartstrings. As I heard them, tears streamed down my face.
They felt so nice to hear, and they really made an impact. I remember thinking to myself, yes, it is time baby girl, it is time to be kind, and to return the love back to yourself.
But I had not been able to do this before. I could not access this level of kindness or self-love until I did the internal work on myself, because before that, I was swimming in pain and complex PTSD.
After hearing these words, something landed. I thought to myself, yes, I can do this now. Now that I have shifted the residual layers of trauma, pain, conditioning and stories.
I have built a foundation where it feels safe to love myself. It feels safe to comprehend what it means to be kind to myself, to love myself, to nurture myself, and to take care of myself.
It is only now, after being on this journey for over 10+ years of digging through the trenches, unpacking and healing my traumas, that I can create space for this.
Being kind and loving towards myself was once such a foreign concept. Instead, I used to self-annihilate, self-destruct, and inflict as much pain as possible on myself.
So hearing these words showed me something. I could see and feel my growth and beauty on the other side.
It feels nice and peaceful.
I could feel this growth and transformation in my body.
I am so deeply proud of myself for this.
Celebrate with me 🙌
Loving you Fearlessly,
🧠💃🫦
Sarah x
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