Batsholetsi Trust

07/02/2026

"Yes, a weak husband will expose you to egregious disrespect from your in-laws, but if they don't like you, they don't like you. They're barely tolerating you out of respect for your husband, and you can't fail to see that. The day he dies, they'll show you flames. Ask HHP's widow. Her in-laws even disputed the existence of her marriage. They wanted her to leave with nothing"

05/02/2026

Gents,Le thusiwa Jang??I bet you'll excuse this and say it's cause you're not used to it right
Wharissdiss?👇👇👇

"I saw a reel about how women compliment absolutely anything they like about other women, yet men rarely get compliments from anyone — and isn’t that so sad.

Women notice the details.
The shoes, the hair, the laugh, the confidence.

We hype each other up because we understand how powerful kindness can be, how a few sincere words can change someone’s whole day.

Compliments, to us, are just appreciation — nothing more, nothing less.

So the very next day, I tried to put that kindness into practice. I told a man I thought his outfit looked really cool. Simple. Harmless. Human.

He followed me for the next twenty minutes.

I had to approach a cop on the street just to get him to leave me alone.

Fastest reminder ever of why we don’t do this.

Because what women offer as warmth is too often taken as an invitation.

What’s meant as a compliment gets misread as access.

And instead of feeling good about being kind, we’re reminded to be cautious, to stay alert, to protect ourselves — even in moments that should’ve been safe.

It’s not that women don’t want to spread kindness. It’s that too many times, kindness comes with a cost.

And that’s the part that’s actually sad'

04/02/2026

STAYING WITH A MAN IN DIFFICULT TIMES IS NOT ALWAYS SUPPORT.

Staying with your husband during a rough season does not automatically mean you supported him. Sometimes what looks like loyalty on the outside is actually silent destruction on the inside.

There are women who stayed, but every day they insulted, abused, belittled, and reminded the man of his failure. They stayed because they feared people’s opinions, family pressure, or wanted the “married” title, not because they truly cared.

Physically present, but emotionally cruel. Instead of building him, they reduced him to nothing.

That is why, when things finally improve, some men leave. Not because they forgot who stayed, but because during the hardest moments, she revealed who she truly was. Difficult times expose character. They show who is really for you and who is just there for appearances.

Support is not staying. Support is respect, encouragement, patience, and belief, especially when things are falling apart.

03/02/2026

Someone please come tell this dude to go right ahead and marry his mama.
Let the stubborn woman go as far away from them as possible.
Stubborn women usually is used to define a woman who won't take anybody's nonsense.Doesnt matter who it is...

01/02/2026

Check Yourself This Year Baby Girl,You'll surely get a taste and more for everything you're sowing right now in someone else's life.,😊

9 times out of 10.

Your frustrations with other people in your field of life, is really you just meeting yourself from an earlier chapter in your book of life that you forgot about, of how you behaved and treated someone else, then glossed over it and pretended it never happen.

So often, the argument and intricate articulation you have for the opposition for how they’ve wronged you, is the spirit using you as a vessel to channel a message back to you, for what you did in the earlier chapter of your book, then glossed over, and pretended never happen.

The purpose of you meeting yourself, is to correct and evolve the pattern in you.

All patterns meets itself at the intersection of its very nature.

It’s the nature of things.

This is what it means for “everything done in the dark, will eventually come to the light”

The very nature of your thought and behavior patterns projects, a vibration that matches with life experiences it matches the pattern of.

It travels the fields of patterns on the foundation of energetic law.

That lie you told, you’ll meet yourself.

That friend’s trust you betrayed and leaked their secrets out into the streets, you’ll meet yourself.

That contract you breached and ran off with the resource, you’ll meet yourself.

Your children you mistreated and belittled, you’ll meet yourself.

Those seeds of gossip and slander you whispered into the ears of assassins and hyenas, you’ll meet yourself.

That time you blamed the failure of something on your brother or sister behind their back, to save your face and paint yourself as innocent, you’ll meet yourself.

And when you meet yourself, know that your righteous critique against your attacker, is a message straight from God, but it’s not for them, it’s for YOU.

Course correct now, or meet yourself later.

31/01/2026

Top 5 ways to know a wife material when you meet her. Don’t waste time wife her quickly.

1. 'When after a little argument, she’ll block you,then unblock you,then block you again and then unblock.Bro she’s the one.

2. When she always want to share her opinion with you.She’s always interested and involved in your decisions and growth. She’s not doing that to control you sir.If she sees a future with you, she as well wants to input in the design of that future by contributing her opinions for effective and better future with you.

3. When she is not shy around you,like she can joke with you about everything and anything,she can stand before you and fart💨 hot hot,she can sit and eat without pretending.Bro that’s your wife.

4. If she holds God tight,She prays and she also likes to advise you even when you act arrogant towards her advice.Only a lady who wishes you really well will advise you.

5. If she has forgiven your mess up one or two times because she loves you.Trust me you’ll lose her on the third so just change be a great guy and marry her..

BONUS:If she likes money and likes to think ideas that bring money, quickly marry her,she’s your wife,she’ll motivate you to hustle"

BONUS:If she has ever debited herself to credit you.Note- a woman will never give you shishi if it’s not pure love,it's only that some steal and run off with it,users!

31/01/2026

It seems Nandi’s statement that men should be given grace has stirred quite a reaction among women online.

I must say,I wholeheartedly agree.Men are human too.l can understand why some may struggle to extend grace,especially if they’ve never experienced the presence of a good man,whether in romantic relationships or otherwise.After all,it’s difficult to relate to something you’ve never known.

But let’s not forget: we have sons,nephews,uncles,and fathers. Are we to say that every one of them has been nothing but terrible? In my own life,i’ve encountered men who were cruel, selfish,and unkind.Yet I’ve also experienced the gentleness,love, and rare depth of connection that good men bring.Imperfect as they are,such men exist,and they deserve grace.

Yes,the harm many men inflict on women and children is undeniable.Some sit behind prison walls,while others walk free, leaving victims without justice.Still,I believe grace is needed for all humanity,especially for those broken by circumstances,those who have never known love and,in turn,wound everyone they encounter.

Nandi was not asking women to be gentle with abuse,neglect,or irresponsibility.Gentleness is not a command it is a response to safety,consistency,and love.

Many black women have been gentle to their own harm.That reality must be acknowledged and confronted.No one is denying it.

Nandi was speaking from the context of a healthy marriage, a man who shows up,exercises self-control,loves his family,and leads with accountability.

If that description doesn’t reflect you,then the message wasn’t directed at you.

Accountability and partnership are not opposing ideas.We can challenge harmful behavior and still speak about what healthy relationships look like.🩵🩵🩵💙🗣️

30/01/2026

🫄🤱👩‍❤️‍👩 New Mommies,Pregas!Get with the programme!Pampers allowance

30/01/2026

This is where I tell you,that you don't understand men.Men have s*x with a goat. You mean to tell me he's attracted to the goat? Even with pr******tes, are you telling me there are no attractive pr******tes? Who told you men are not s*xually attracted to pr******tes? I have news for you, many pr******tes are actually more attractive than you, regular women.Out of the ten pr******tes,he will pick the one he's most attracted to.

You see a pr******te and be like,"if she wasn't a hooker,I'd pursue a serious relationship with her". A whole rapper released a song entitled "I'm in love with a stripper".Some men become so crazy that they actually marry them.

30/01/2026

♥️♥️♥️😍

30/01/2026

Wife number 3,Isthembu In Botswana.Is there a limit.

On the occasion of hubby's birthday

29/01/2026

The other woman,side chick,Wives,The Main,Come See what goes on,what he does to manipulate,lie,having a cake and eating it.If you jeep away from his phone for privacy though,I guess you can't relate.

"Someone called my husband, a lady and I answered cuz I’ve been seeing that she calls often and any time she does, it’s either my husband won’t answer or he would step out to answer it.

Immediately she heard my voice, she said, “I want to speak to your husband, not you. Is he around?”
I told her he wasn’t around, she could leave a message and I’ll deliver it to him.
Then she said, “I want to talk to him himself”.
Then I said, who are you that you want to talk to him himself?
Then she said, “madam, you have no right to be asking me that question, just hurry up and sign the papers and leave like he asked you to!”

At this point, I was confused so I asked her what papers she was talking about.
Then she said, “I know everything so sign the divorce papers and leave Ben alone or do you want to keeel him?”
Then I decided to play along to see what else she had to say, so I said, “I’m not going anywhere, let him do whatever he wants”.

Her response, “what do you want again, the person has made you a good offer, you are not giving him peace at home and you keep wasting his money, just leave so someone that loves him can have him - if he’s not able to tell you, I’m telling you. He cries to me everyday so go”.

Me, ‘young lady, you can’t tell me what to do’
Her, “then why did you suggest the divorce in the first place, mtcheeeeew” and she hangs up.

I was angry but it was funny. My husband hasn’t even mentioned any divorce to me. I realised it was all a lie he told her to sleep with her or whatever.(Follow us on ticktock 📌batsholetsit)

First, I made my husband know what his side girl told me. He cried and begged. He said he would cut her off. He made a lot of promises but I know he’s just sorry the girl said things he meant to use to deceive her to me, painting me black.

I’m yet to accept his plea - I’ll stretch this to make sure he’s truly sorry, but the girl, Why would she believe those lies and have the confidence to say them to me? Why are some women out there fighting for our marriages to fail? Why can’t men try to stay faithful a little bit? Hmmmm"