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07/04/2026

How do narcissists brainwash you?
Narcissists brainwash you and, more generally, ruin your life in three different ways if you allow them to:
Ignoring your feelings.
Bullying your actions.
If you've gone through this cycle, you probably feel tired and defeated. In fact, if you try to talk to them about how you feel tired and drained, they probably will diminish your plight or won't seem to care if you try to tell them your concerns and feelings. You are merely a resource for them and their needs, wants, and desires; they do not consider your feelings. Once you can break away from this cycle, you may be able to let go of any concern about:
Feeling like you are worthless and valueless;
Making decisions on your own;
Feeling unsure when faced with a challenging situation;

07/04/2026

If you’re showing up today tired, overwhelmed, under-motivated, or mentally still in holiday mode… welcome. You are not alone 😂
This is your reminder that progress does not always look powerful.
Sometimes it looks like:
surviving the day,
drinking water and being a Mindul Eater,
"ignoring" those phone calls,
and trying not to lose your mind.
Be kind to yourself today.
You’re a human being, not a machine
I LOVE YOUUUUUU AND GOOD MORNING

Some of our children are getting ready to make academic decisions about their future. I provide free academic advice for...
06/04/2026

Some of our children are getting ready to make academic decisions about their future. I provide free academic advice for those who just want to chat about what they would like to study at tertiary level. I’m even open to welcoming those who want to take productive gap years. All are welcome
WhatsApp 74570332

Motivational Monday Reminder:You are not tired because life is hard.You are tired because you said “I’ll just lie down f...
06/04/2026

Motivational Monday Reminder:
You are not tired because life is hard.
You are tired because you said “I’ll just lie down for 5 minutes” and woke up 2 hours later.
Anyway… drink water, stretch, and try again.
We start again every Monday

A million dollar smile 😁
05/04/2026

A million dollar smile 😁

Should I get myself one of those husband things? 😳 anyway in the mean time let me enjoy
04/04/2026

Should I get myself one of those husband things? 😳 anyway in the mean time let me enjoy

Thursday Nutrition × Mental HealthWhat you eat affects how you feel — not just your body, but your mind too.When we are ...
02/04/2026

Thursday Nutrition × Mental Health
What you eat affects how you feel — not just your body, but your mind too.
When we are stressed, financially challenged, busy, or tired, we usually eat whatever is available, quick, cheap, and filling. But many people don’t realize that food affects:
• Mood
• Energy
• Sleep
• Anxiety
• Stress levels
• Concentration
Sometimes it’s not just life making you feel tired, moody, or anxious.
Sometimes it’s also:
• Not drinking enough water
• Too much sugar
• Not enough nutritious food
• Skipping meals
• Too much caffeine, alcohol
• Not enough sleep
Take care of your mind the same way you take care of your body.They are connected. Eat well. Sleep well. Move your body. Protect your peace.

01/04/2026

This economy is teaching us budgeting, patience, and humility.
Many people are not broke because they are irresponsible. Life is just expensive. Don’t compare your Chapter 3 to someone’s Chapter 20. Adulting is just walking around stressed about money and dinner.

01/04/2026

Do narcissists care if you ignore them?
I think if you are ignoring a narcissist, you are doing that for a reason because you are not ignoring them for attention or playing games as the narcissist does... just for fun!! You are ignoring the narc because they caused you problems and hurt you, and let me tell you that the narcissist knows when they have hurt you and they expect you to ignore them.

But does the narcissist care?! Usually not! They may try to contact you a couple of times to get your attention, but this will not last for long, because the narcissist sees that you have only two choices: either accept them as they are, or ignore them forever. And if you have deep feelings towards them, it's likely that you will not ignore them for so long. If they dangle the carrot, they know that you will respond in the end. But if you don't respond, they will for sure look elsewhere for someone who will. They will unlikely put themselves in a situation where they can feel embarrassed, where being ignored by you have some impact upon them.

If you choose to ignore them forever and move on with your life, some will confine you in history and use your ignorance to their advantage. Because instead of trying to understand how they hurt you and because of that you ignored them, they will take that as an excuse to discard you, and they will also say it was your fault.

Believe me, whether you ignore them or idolize them, be sure that this will not effect the final result for them, because in the two cases, and like always, you will end up being discarded by the narcissist.

01/04/2026

How much do diapers cost now? I’m planning something 🙃

01/04/2026

New month, new goals, new motivation… same me who still hasn’t finished the water I promised to drink in January 😭

Happy New Month everyone! May April be the month we:
• Actually do the things we wrote in our notebooks in January

But please today is April Fool’s Day, so don’t believe any “I’m engaged”, “I quit my job”, or “I’m moving to Mars tomorrow” posts 😂

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