09/11/2025
BO MY GIRL......CHOOSE WISELY!
Gentle reminder....It matters who you choose to marry....lo nyala/ nyalwa hela mme lo le unequally yoked betsho🤞🏽......kamoso ebe motho a tla on the socials talking about how marriage is not an achievement....kante people who talk like this, where do they learn such vile philosophies from🤔? Ba tshela kae ko rona re sa tsheleng teng🤔?
Bommaetsho, this post is for you, especially you young single girls who aspire to marriage. Bongwanaka, lo tle lo tlhophe phokojwe yo ereng ha o kaletse ene abo a inaa naga le difhebe, a sena tshika ya leadership ee reng, my wife o kaletse mme re batle thuso, I need to fix this.....o tla ikotlhaa. Someone has sold Batswana a fantasy ya gore marriage is a bed of roses.I speak in my capacity as a Coach and as an elder. Mo nyalong, there are times where waa go kallang teng as a woman le hubby is going to do the same. Go na le nako e re loozang timing as humans simply because we are not perfect, and as such, at times we get emotionally charged and rational goes out the window 🪟. It is during these times that wa go lemoga gore indeed partner selection matters🤔. ke gone o tlaa bonang gore sharp sharp o nyetswe ke mang, kana o tlhophile eng🤔 .During those times my girl, you better have selected a man with good Leadership skills, a man who is not a quitter. A man who draws from his Warrior Archetype and goes to war for his marriage a tlhaloganya Legacy🤔. As a woman, you need an emotionally solid man, not a little boy who suffers from impatience. Go na le sekgowa se se reng....When I am weak, you are strong, where you are weak I am strong. Ha o sa lemogeng dilo teng as a woman, o hekeediwa ke maikutlo, you better have selected a Masculine man who is decisive, who is proactive, who has enough sense to understand his own limitations and that the best way forward, is to engage a Life Coach.....re theogele re baakanye re age dilo di boele mannong.
There are truly women in this country who have chosen wisely. Today after this call, I sat and prayed ke re Modimo, heal our men and women re nne le a desire go ithuta gore spouse se tlhopiwa jang shem. There are sessions that just inspire me, that blow me away and this was one of them. As I coach I also learn...therein lies the beauty of my job🥰😍😘 Lenyalo ga se mmantlwane, ha go tshamekelwe mo go lone. Dikgwetlho dietla ko pele kwa....choose a Warrior mmaetsho, you need a Warrior by your side🤞🏽
Its Sunday, ke tlhotse ke cleana ebe ke tlhapa ke theogela, now its time to go shopping for some veggies I want to cook a delicious dinner ke iteboge for just being an awesome humanbeing.....😉
LOVE ALWAYS❤️
BOSSLADY
