01/19/2026
Psssstt…I’ve got a not so secret secret for you:
When your nervous system is used to stress, urgency feels normal and stillness can feel threatening. Rest can bring up feelings of guilt, anxiety or an overwhelming urge to “do something useful”. It can also surface emotions you’ve been avoiding. Yuck, am I right?!!
Here’s the thing though…discomfort isn’t proof that you shouldn’t rest. It’s actually often an indication that rest is something you really, truly need. Discomfort doesn’t mean danger, sometimes it just means unfamiliar safety.
So let the rest be messy. Let it be awkward. Let it be new. Your nervous system will learn.
Slowly. Gently.
In its own time.
And that is A-okay 🫶🏻
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