11/21/2025
The belief “I’m not doing enough” rarely comes from the present moment.
It comes from old internal narratives shaped by early experiences.
The human brain forms self-worth through two things:
1. What we were taught about ourselves
2. What we had to do to feel accepted or safe
So if you learned that love, approval, or peace came from being good, helpful, productive, or perfect — your brain wires itself to equate worth with performance.
This creates:
Chronic pressure
Self-criticism
Comparing yourself to others
Feeling behind even when you're ahead
Achieving goals but not feeling fulfilled
“Not enough-ness” is not truth.
It is a conditioned belief.
Healing is the process of rewriting the meaning you attach to effort, success, and self-worth
If you’re tired of chasing “enough,” it’s possible to create a new internal story — one rooted in grounded worth.
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