11/16/2025
Sometimes rom-coms make attachment theory surprisingly obvious. 😅
In "Can You Keep a Secret" Emma and Jack are doing the best they can with the attachment strategies they’ve developed in life and as a result hurt eachother along the way.
By the end of the movie they are able to be more responsive to eachother and the final scene of the movie is a beautiful example of co-regulation.
💭 What makes you feel emotionally safe with a partner?
https://www.restorecounselling.ca/can-you-keep-a-secret-teaches-us-secure-attachment/
What Can You Keep a Secret? reveals about secure attachment, emotional safety, and why honesty might just be the ultimate love language.