Finding You with Angela May

11/15/2025

I’ve noticed something fascinating about the women I work with:

🌸 They’ve spent years giving everything to others—relationships, careers, families—leaving almost nothing for themselves.
💔 They’ve poured love, time, and energy into everyone else, believing their happiness will come once everything and everyone around them is “fixed.”

But here’s what I’ve learned:

✨ The women who truly transform their lives are the ones who finally decide to put themselves first.
They stop waiting for someone else to choose them and instead, they choose themselves. 💪

🌟 They face their fears about starting over and discover they’re not just capable—they’re unstoppable. 🚀

And they do this not by pretending they have it all together, but by:
🌈 Asking for help
💡 Seeking clarity
🎯 Getting intentional about what they want in this next chapter of life

So it got me thinking…

❓ How many women are still stuck in the cycle of giving, sacrificing, and doubting themselves?
❓ How many of you are scrolling through posts, feeling like no one truly understands what you’re going through?
❓ How many are tired of feeling invisible, overlooked, and afraid to take the first step toward the life you really want?

Here’s the truth:

💖 If you’re reading this, it’s your time.
🌟 You don’t have to navigate this alone.
⏳ You don’t have to keep telling yourself it’s too late.

Because once you decide to prioritize YOU—
💜 Your dreams
💛 Your happiness
💚 Your transformation—

Everything changes. ✨

I’ve seen it with my clients:

💡 The ones who show up ready to rewrite their stories and take back their power are the ones who leave our work together feeling:
🌸 Radiant
💪 Confident
🌈 Ready for anything

🎉 As 2025 comes to an end, let's start 2026 off with a NEW YOU. 🌟
👉 Reach out for a free discovery call and take the first step toward the life you deserve. 💖

🖋️ Your best chapter is waiting to be written. Let’s write it together. ✨

11/14/2025

11/12/2025

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11/12/2025

Hi, I’m Angela, a dedicated Rapid Transformational Practitioner, Coach and Reiki Practitioner. But more than that, I bring to the table a lifetime of experiences that may mirror your own.

Have you ever felt lost, unheard, or like you’re always putting others before yourself? Do you struggle with setting boundaries, saying no, or fearing rejection? Maybe you’ve lost your confidence, feel trapped in toxic relationships, or find yourself in midlife wondering, How did I get here?

That was me too.

From the outside, my life seemed fine—I smiled, I showed up, and I did what was expected. But inside, I felt unfulfilled. After spending 25 plus years in the corporate world, I realized I was going through the motions, missing a sense of passion and purpose. I married young, divorced young, and spent years trying to please everyone but myself.

When life pushed me to take a hard look at where I was, I knew something had to change. That’s when I discovered Rapid Transformational Therapy, and it transformed not just my mindset but my entire life.

Through RTT, I shifted my focus inward and uncovered the deep-rooted beliefs, thoughts, and generational patterns that were holding me back. I learned why I behaved the way I did, why I attracted certain relationships and circumstances, and how to change the narrative I had been living. By re-framing past experiences, I found my true self and began creating the life I truly desire.

RTT helps uncover the root causes of physical or emotional pain and frees you from the limitations that hold you back. It has quieted my inner critic, replaced it with an inner cheerleader, and given me the freedom to be authentically me. Now, I help others find that same freedom—freedom to live unapologetically, to embrace joy, and to create a life aligned with their true desires.

I am here to guide you, but this journey is yours. With your willingness to change and my expertise, together we can uncover the path to the life you’ve always envisioned.

11/11/2025

✨ Mid-Life Magic: Let’s Find YOU ✨

Feeling like something’s missing? Struggling with boundaries? Attracted to emotionally unavailable partners (hello, we’ve all been there!)? 🌀 It’s time to pause, reflect, and step into the YOU that’s been waiting to shine.

Let’s rewrite those old beliefs, heal those wounds, and rediscover the magic inside of you. 🌈 💪

💌 Message me to start your transformation today—because mid-life isn’t an end, it’s a new beginning!

11/10/2025

🌟 Transform Your Mind, Transform Your Life 🌟
Ever feel like you're stuck in a loop—repeating the same patterns and wondering why things never change? That’s where I come in! I will guide you to uncover the why and break free from what’s holding you back. Let’s rewrite your story together. 💖✨
👉 Ready to start? Message me to find out how my program can unlock your full potential! ⚡️

11/10/2025

Have you ever said…

“I’ll start on Monday.”
“I’m going to speak up this time.”
“I have to stop saying yes to everything.”

…and then didn’t follow through?

We’ve all done it. But here’s what’s important to know:

Every time you say you’ll do something—and don’t—your mind learns that your words don’t mean much.
And over time, this chips away at self-trust.

It’s not about willpower or discipline.
It’s about the beliefs driving the pattern.

What if the real reason you didn’t follow through isn’t laziness or weakness… but a subconscious belief like:
👉 “It’s not safe to put myself first.”
👉 “If I speak up, I’ll be rejected.”
👉 “I always mess things up, so why try?”

These are the kinds of beliefs I help women shift using Rapid Transformational Therapy and mindfulness-based approaches—supporting you to rewrite the old programming and reconnect with your inner confidence.

When your mind starts to believe you can trust yourself again, you show up differently:
✨ You follow through.
✨ You speak kindly to yourself.
✨ You honour your boundaries.

And that changes everything.

Rebuilding self-trust is not about doing more—it’s about becoming someone who believes in herself again.

11/08/2025

Change Your Words, Change Your World
Your words create your reality. 🗣️✨
Notice the difference here:
🔁 “I have to go to work” vs “I get to go to work.”
🔁 “This is hard” vs “This is an exciting challenge.”
🔁 “I’ll try” vs “I choose.”
Each shift lands differently in your body. 💫
Your nervous system listens. Your energy shifts. Your brain follows.
This is one of the tools I teach my clients—because when you change the way you speak to yourself, you change the way you experience life.

Choose to change your words, you'll be surprised what happens next 😉

11/07/2025

“You Can’t Change What You’re Not Aware Of”
Imagine trying to clean a room in the dark.
You’d bump into things, trip over the same stuff, and not even see what’s really making the mess.

That’s how old beliefs work. They hide in the background until you shine a light on them.

In RTT, we turn on the lights—so you can finally see what’s been running the show… and change it.

11/06/2025

Let's talk about your BS (Belief System) for a minute...
Marriage = Prison or Protection? 🤔
Single = Lonely or Free? 💭
Change = Scary or Exciting? ✨
Plot twist: None of these have a fixed meaning. YOU get to choose the story you believe.
What meaning are you giving to your current chapter?

11/05/2025

“Fear and I Had a Chat”
Fear and I had a little chat the other day.
She showed up in her usual dramatic fashion—
💓 heart racing, 🤲 hands sweating, whispering:
“You don’t know what’s going to happen… what if it goes wrong?”

And I whispered back:
“But what if it goes better than I imagined?”

(That shut her up for a second.) 😉

Here’s the thing:
Your mind’s #1 job is to keep you safe—not happy.
That’s why it loves routine and the known—even if that routine sucks. 🙃

Mindset work (and RTT) gave me the tools to interrupt that loop.
To remind my brain that fear and excitement feel the same in the body.
It’s the story we attach that changes everything.

Now, fear doesn’t live in my head anymore—
it’s more like that earworm 🎵 you just can’t shake…
and you know what?....
You can go your own way. 🎸🎶