04/21/2026
Most of the time, it’s not the emotion itself; it’s what we do with them. We are often taught to push through, stay strong, or “be fine.”
So when sadness, anger, shame, guilt, or disappointment show up, we often interpret them as something to avoid, push away, or suppress.
Our emotions are not dangerous or bad. Maybe part of the issue is that we were never shown how to feel them, or perhaps it didn't feel safe to feel them.
So this is where emotional work begins:
Learning that what you feel isn’t the threat.
Avoiding it is what keeps you stuck and tends to make the emotions more intense for us.
Notice what is changing for you.
Label the emotion you are feeling.
Ask yourself what you are physically sensing in your body.
Give yourself permission to feel.
Self-validation.