04/03/2026
When I had chronic pain, I was obsessed with my symptoms. Every morning I would wake up and intensely scan my body for pain sensations. I thought about my pain 80% of the day. I talked about it constantly with my partner. I’d spend hours on Google looking for causes and treatments.
All my behaviours during the day were focused on fixing and solving my symptoms. Maybe this sounds familiar to you?
If so, it is vital to understand that obsessing about your pain or symptoms will worsen the sensations over time. Obsessive thinking and compulsive actions increase fight-or-flight energy and repeatedly signal to the brain that your body must be broken or diseased. This sense of danger can maintain or even worsen your symptoms.
To heal pain and symptoms, we need to overcome our obsession with them.
A simple way to start reducing the obsession with your symptoms is to give your brain something else to think about or do. We need to shift our focus to something other than pain, symptoms, and body sensations.
For myself, I did this by:
* Starting to do artwork again
* Listening to my favorite bands from the past
* Taking cheap online courses on topics I was interested in
* Researching what career I would want to pursue once my pain reduced
* Talking to a friend on the phone each day
Make a list of all the things you could think about, focus on, or do instead of focusing on your symptoms. Then, each time you notice your brain becoming hyper-focused on your symptoms, practice intentionally shifting to something on that list. With repetition, this can retrain your brain out of the obsession.