11/01/2020
October 2016 vs October 2020. I see a lot of these types of posts with the “before” being noticeably leaner and the caption saying something about how unhealthy they felt, how they didn’t love themselves in the before pic, how they sacrificed so many things to look like the before but in the after there is balance and love etc. This isn’t the case for me. I remember being just as confident in my body and loving what it could do for me back then, and not feeling deprived (diet wise) and nothing significant has really changed in the “now”. There’s probably a 15-20lb difference between these two pictures. I’m fortunate to be able to have found happiness and confidence in working out at the age I did (back in 2012-2013). I think it’s really helped me to appreciate the different stages I’ve gone through and help me not stress that the before pic was probably sizes 2-4, where as now I’m most comfortable in 6-8. I hope that everyone reaches a stage in their life where they stop worrying about the number your clothing tag says or what the scale flashes at you and focuses on how it feels. You might be able to squeeze into a size 4 but you’ll be uncomfortable all day and it probably doesn’t look as flattering as a size that is meant for your body! In the before pic I had 1 cheat night a week and did 10 mins of cardio before every workout. In the “now” pic I have 2 cheat meals a week, definitely more food in general, and do cardio after a workout a few times a week on the average month (the month of Oct I challenged myself to 10-15 mins after every workout). You’ll go through different stages in your life that change how you eat. Maybe it’s you’re single and not going out for dinner as much or ordering in as much, maybe it’s you had more time to workout and eat more strictly because you don’t have kids and don’t have kid friendly foods/snacks in the house, maybe it’s you can now afford more food, more meals out, and financially you’re in a better place to justify not being as strict. Whatever it is, don’t get hung up on how you used to be or long for your old body. Always strive to see improvements but really try and love every stage you’re in and... aim for health ❤️