12/19/2025
If You’re Struggling, You’re Not Alone ❤️
Ways to Support Yourself Through Holiday Loneliness
1. Name what you’re feeling
Saying “I’m lonely” (even to yourself) takes the power away from the feeling. It becomes something you’re experiencing, not something you are.
2. Lower the pressure
There is no “right” way to do Christmas or the holidays. Your holiday doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Feel free to spend the day watching movies, ordering Chinese food, or taking a trip.
3. Reach out
Sending a text, joining an online community, or talking to someone you trust can create real connection, even if it’s brief.
5. Give your holidays personal meaning
You’re allowed to create your own traditions: quiet ones, simple ones, unconventional ones.
Meaning doesn’t come from the holiday itself; it comes from what you choose to put into it.
❤️ Feeling lonely over the holidays doesn’t make you dramatic or negative. It means you’re human. ❤️
Whatever this season looks like for you—joyful, messy, quiet, or heavy—your experience is valid. Connection is still possible, even in small ways. And the holidays don’t define your worth.
- Rachel Tober