11/20/2025
(written/shared with permission)
My client said, āI thought millions in the bank would finally make me feel secure.ā
She carried around the belief that if she just earned enough, sheād never have to feel the insecurity she did when she was a kid growing up.
No longer the embarrassed and hungry little girl without a lunch.
No longer the shake-y kid who waited for her Dad to come home and he never did.
No longer the child who started a side-hustle to help her mama pay the bills.
But, thatās not really how it works, is it?
At least, it didnāt work for her.
A house on the hill.
A car that made heads turn.
Millions in the bank (and a bonus one on the beach).
She thought, āif I just climb the mountain of success, then Iāll be free.ā
Her little-self thought, āif I am valuable, maybe heāll choose me, maybe heāll stay.ā
He didnāt.
Not then.
Not now.
Money didnāt save her from the wound.
Material possessions didnāt fill the hungry void.
We canāt buy inner alignment.
She lived the pattern, again and again.
In every deal.
Every relationship.
When she looked in the mirror.
Until, she got it.
We repeat what we donāt repair.
Layers millions (of cash/lovers/followers/accomplishments/accolades) on a core wound is just an extra-fancy bandaid covering a festering infection.
The wound revels the cure, if we are brave enough look.
photo credit: captured it