02/24/2026
Bodhin Birth Story | Part 2
On Sunday Avery crawled into bed with me just before 7am.
Right before that, while I was lying there, I felt this powerful startle reflex… and then Derek reached over and gently touched my belly. That’s when I noticed the light cramps.
About 20 minutes later I went to the bathroom and saw some of my mucus plug.
I remember thinking… is this baby going to be a Virgo or a Libra? A summer or fall baby? Maybe I have one more day with him on the inside.
Over the past few days B3’s movements had been so strong. It felt like he was physically ready.
I went downstairs, tried to eat breakfast, and told Derek, “I think today’s the day.”
He immediately started tidying the house. I wandered around nibbling on food, half in denial, half knowing.
Around 8:30am we called Megan, our birth photographer, to give her a heads up that contractions were starting.
Early on I did a Forward Leaning Inversion just to make sure my uterine ligaments and baby were in the most optimal position.
At 9:18am I went to the bathroom again and had uncontrollable p**p and bloody show. Things were clearly shifting.
The kids were supposed to go to Calaway Park that day, and Avery still wanted to go — even after I told her the baby was coming. I felt emotional about it because I wanted her there again, but it was her choice.
They watched TV while I rotated between the toilet and the birth ball… toilet, ball, toilet, ball. I’d been putting off cutting out my affirmations, so I got the kids to help me finish the project.
I rocked on all fours but felt intense heaviness in my low back. Sage was getting upset that I couldn’t help him the way he wanted. Between contractions I tried to stay connected with him. At one point he crawled underneath me pretending to be born saying, “Have a baby, done.”
If only labour were that easy. It brought some comic relief which I needed.
I started slowly crawling on all fours and the movement took the back pain away and probably helping baby rotate too.
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