04/01/2026
These are some of the most common things I hear in the newborn phase.
Here’s what I often explain:
“They won’t let me put them down.”
In the early weeks, contact is regulation. Many newborns settle best on a caregiver because they’re still adjusting to life outside the womb.
“Are they gaining enough weight?”
Weight is looked at in context — not just by a single feed or day. Patterns over time help us understand the bigger picture, and sometimes a closer look can give helpful insight. If you’re worried about weight gain, it’s important to seek advice from your midwife, health visitor or GP.
“Are they supposed to make noise when feeding?”
Some noise is common. But persistent clicking, smacking, pain, or frequent unlatching can suggest feeding may need a closer look.
“Why does bedtime take so long?”
Many newborns naturally settle later in the evening. Trying to create an early bedtime too soon can sometimes make nights feel harder than they need to be.
Some of these are part of normal newborn adjustment.
Others simply need the right support and reassurance.
Understanding the difference can make everything feel calmer.
If you’re unsure where your situation sits, let’s chat 🤍"
Zahra Rajah is a Registered Nurse (BScN) supporting families with early parenthood challenges across London, United Kingdom.
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