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12/23/2025

I was looking through old photos for my son’s birthday…man…what a trip. Naturally, I came to pass by “old me” and felt a lot of tenderness. I could feel how different I relate to these versions of me now. There was no urge to critique, analyze, fix or erase…just a quiet honoring.

The “then” photos you see are the me that didn’t know how much her body was carrying beneath the surface. I can see now how much strength and endurance those versions of me had carrying all “that”. All that emotional pain, anxiety, chronic inflammation, and autoimmune diagnoses / flare ups (symptoms requesting care).

So this isn’t a “before and after.” It’s a thank you. Although so hard, the outpour lead me to healing (and I wouldn’t have it another way).

I turned 37 today and in the reflective days leading into Christmas, I notice that this birthday doesn’t feel quite the same as usual. It feels like a pause. A settling. A moment to take not of what has been held, learned, and integrated.

So, thank you to the version of me who survived, who kept going, and who did the best she could with the tools she had at the time. And thank you to the version of me now who feels settled, aligned and more at home in herself.

This birthday doesn’t feel like becoming someone new. It feels like coming home…a remembering. 👧🏻🥹 iykyk

I also feel deep gratitude for this community. I don’t take for granted that I get to walk beside you in your healing. Being invited into people’s lives and stories is a privilege I feel deeply at this time of year when everything naturally invites us to slow down and remember what truly matters.

Sending love, gentleness, and deep gratitude as I step into another year of life and as we move into Christmas/2026 together. ♥️

Cheers to the gentle reminder that healing doesn’t erase who you were. It integrates her. 🥂

12/19/2025

We’re so conditioned for more. More goals. More growth. More money. More habits. More intentions. More. More. More.

I personally love to “clean-house” or “subtract” before resorting to more (the perfectionist in me hates this though 😆).

Before asking what you want to call in, it’s worth asking what you’re no longer available for…

🚰 What’s draining you?
⌛️ What are you tolerating out of habit, guilt, or an old version of yourself that’s already expired?

🌠 Creation needs space 🌠
💨 Desire needs room to breathe 💨
And your next level can’t actually land in a life that’s already too full with misaligned yesses.

“With love, it’s a no.” is about making room.

Clear what no longer fits. Close the loops that aren’t in your best interest. Then, from that spaciousness, let your yes be clean, grounded, and true.

12/15/2025

I can quickly slip into managing the room when I’m stressed or worried about others…you too? Stay with me…

We smooth the mood, fix the dynamics, be the solution to another’s problem, carry the consequence of another’s personal responsibility and quietly take on the job of making sure everyone else is comfortable.

And then we wonder why we feel tired, wired, resentful, and a little spicy inside. 😏

Cue the inner narration (spiral)…
“They’re being difficult.”
“I’m always the one picking up the pieces.”
“Why can’t they just help?”
“If I don’t, no one else will.”

We think we’re pointing at the problem.
But most of the time, we’re actually revealing a desire we haven’t named yet. (This is key *)

Complaints are rarely just about other people. They’re clues. They point to what we’re craving underneath the frustration: support, connection, ease, feeling valued, or maybe not carrying the emotional load alone…

When we listen underneath the complaint, something shifts. We stop trying to manage or control others and start honouring ourselves instead. That’s where boundaries actually begin. Not as walls. Not as coldness. But as self-responsibility. Self-respect. A quiet decision to stop abandoning yourself just to keep the peace.

You don’t have to fix anyone to feel grounded and you certainly don’t need everyone to behave perfectly to enjoy your life.

You get to choose how you show up:
Your pace.
Your yes.
Your no.
Your energy.
Your attitude.

You can choose you. Kindly. Clearly. Confidently. Even if the dynamics around you don’t magically change and people remain themselves (even if you don’t like it ;)).

If you want support actually practicing this (especially this time of year), the Boundaries Masterclass is free inside The Portal this month (or can be joined separately).It’s deep, clarifying, and will change how you take care of yourself (& drop relational drama) during the holidays and beyond.

12/11/2025

For so many of us, the word “boundaries” feels like loss. Loss of love, loss of approval, loss of safety, loss of belonging. It feels like risky business & stirs up all sorts of insecurities.

Why? We often learn through our world that being easy and agreeable keeps the peace. That our needs are “too much.” That if we stay quiet and keep everyone else comfortable, well we have a moment’s peace.

Over time, that kind of self-abandonment becomes automatic really. We bend, we shrink, we go along…hoping it will make us feel valued, accepted, chosen (or at least not rock the boat). But instead, we slowly disappear. We become the person who cares for everyone else while our own truth gets pushed further and further down. And the resentment growwwwws.

The wild thing is your nervous system thought it was protecting you by placing your needs last. It learned early that self-sacrifice was the way to manage…get through. But what once kept you safe or comfortable may now be the very thing hurting you.

Healing boundaries isn’t about becoming cold or guarded or suddenly “not caring.” It’s about remembering that you matter. Your needs, your limits, your rest, your peace…these are not inconveniences. They are part of your humanity…your life force.

This isn’t about learning how to say “no” better. It’s about healing the belief that love requires you to betray yourself. To give back the responsibilities of others back. When your limiting beliefs shift, boundaries stop feeling like conflict and start feeling like self-respect…freedom.

If you’re tired of disappearing to keep the peace, you’re not alone. This might be your moment to come home to yourself again 🤍

✨ The Boundaries Masterclass is included free inside The Portal (or $44 if you’d like access to it on its own).

A gentle, deep dive into boundaries that honours your needs and restores your most important relationship — the one you have with yourself.

12/08/2025

We all have those moments where our head says one thing, and our body says something completely different.

“I know they didn’t mean to hurt me…but my chest still tightens.”
“I know I’m safe now…but my body still braces.”
“I know I shouldn’t care what they think…but my heart still sinks anyway.”
“I know they love me…but conflict still makes me panic.”
“I know I’m capable…but fear still stops me before I start.”
“I know I could use a sick day…but worry about judgment holds me frozen.”
“I know it everything work out as it’s meant to…but the overthinking at night is consuming me.”

It’s confusing when the mind understands the situation, but the body hasn’t caught up yet. And this is where most people feel stuck. Because we’ve been taught that knowing better should mean feeling better. If only it worked like that...😅

Feeling better doesn’t happen from thinking our way out of a feeling. The nervous system speaks a different language. It learns through experience, through safety, through repetition. Not through pep talks and endless information seeking.

Your NS is actually trying to protect you using old information. It remembers the times you weren’t safe, the times love was unpredictable, the times people’s opinions did matter to your belonging. That wiring doesn’t just disappear because you gained insight from a book, self-help guru or therapist.

Knowing is such an important first step—I’m not here to discredit that. But it’s not the whole story. Feeling safe enough to actually believe that truth in your bones…that’s the *work*. The healing to be done.

This is the space between “I get it” and “I trust it & feel that trust”. Between logic and lived safety. It’s where your body slowly learns a new possibility. It’s where the healing actually lands. 🤲🏼

So, if you know better but still feel caught in the same patterns and loops, what you actually need are things like: healthy emotional regulation, restoring a balanced nervous system and a healthy subconscious program.

If this resonates, you’ll love The Portal. A place to bridge the Knowing 🧠 to Feeling 🪷.

12/06/2025

If I’ve learned anything in this work (and in my own life) it’s that trying to “get through” to someone never actually creates the change we hope it will. We think we’re helping, guiding, loving, supporting…but underneath it there’s often a quiet attempt to control what feels scary, unpredictable, or painful. I first hand get why we do it…

We want things to turn out. We want people to rise. We want the version of the story we’ve been holding onto.

But forcing someone into their becoming has never been love. It’s us trying to play god in a life that isn’t ours. It’s assuming we know what’s best. It’s gripping onto potential because reality feels too…sharp. It’s believing we can rewrite someone’s path when we were never meant to be the author of another’s destiny.

If we step back and honest with ourselves we would see this very clearly: when you bend someone else’s path, you bend your own. You lose clarity. You lose your center. You lose the quiet guidance that comes from staying on your side of the street.

Sometimes the deepest pain is realizing something (or someone) is not what you hoped it would be. But sometimes that’s the doorway back to your actual life. The one that expands when you stop gripping what doesn’t want to grow. The one that opens when you finally face what’s in front of you instead of what you wished it could be. Not necessarily easy, but rarely is it easy to face what needs facing. Worth it? Always.

I don’t think letting something or someone be what it is or who they are is giving up. It’s an act of self-respect, integrity, nervousness system strength, and emotional maturity (spiritual too).

Surrender is ironically a reclaimation your path, your peace, and your power.

12/01/2025

Most people think they struggle with boundaries because they “don’t know what to say,” or because they’re just too nice, too emotional, too sensitive, too accommodating. But that’s not it…

You struggle with boundaries because somewhere along the line, your body learned that it wasn’t safe to have them.

Maybe love felt more secure when you were agreeable.
Maybe belonging felt easier when you were quiet.
Maybe connection stayed intact as long as you didn’t make things complicated.

So, for years, you’ve read the room before you’ve read yourself. You’ve protected other people’s comfort at the expense of your own peace. You’ve softened your truth to keep the peace. And eventually, that peacekeeping turns into exhaustion…and sometimes resentment. IYKYK

We often ‘care’ so much, but we forget that we (ourselves) are included in the caring.

Boundaries aren’t about learning to say “no” louder.
They’re about learning to stop abandoning yourself quietly. 📢

That’s why I created the Boundaries Masterclass…not just as another “how to communicate your needs” worksheet (although there are tools)—but as an emotional recalibration. A nervous-system-friendly reset into: I am allowed to take up space. My needs matter. My relationships actually deepen when I stop disappearing in them. It’s a healing experience IMO.

If that feels like the work you’re ready for…there are two ways to step in:

1️⃣ Join The Portal — my membership where this Masterclass is FREE all month, alongside nervous system resets, mini practices, meditations, and more. ($19.99/month)

2️⃣ Standalone Boundaries Masterclass — yours forever for $44 (regularly $79). Video + journal guide + scripts + emotional root work + self-trust tools.

If you want the link, just DM me the word BOUNDARIES
and I’ll send it your way 🕊️

Here’s to loving others without abandoning yourself in the process.

11/28/2025

This is something I’m actively working on (but don’t always actively execute 😅🫣…working on it!)

We (“I” 😉) often rush to advise because sitting with someone’s discomfort makes us uncomfortable. It triggers our own stories of helplessness, fear, or guilt. So we unintentionally make it about our relief, not their support.

Advice isn’t bad, but when it replaces presence, empathy, and safety…it can feel invalidating (to say the least). Although I wouldn’t say it’s always our job to obsessively validate like our society thinks (but that’s a story for another time). Sometimes helping is not saying more — it’s feeling more. Holding space more. Grounding your presence. Maybe even not joining the spiral…Yenno?

When we can regulate ourselves enough to stay, witness, and simply hold space, we offer something advice never could:
Safety. Connection. Opportunity. 🌅

⁉️Anything you’d like to add? Anything you can relate to? What you like to receive? Tips/tricks?

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