02/10/2026
1ď¸âŁThat 1200 calories and cardio are the only way to get results.
Instead, I eat plenty of protein, complex carbs, healthy fats, and fibre, and I move my body for my goals. Strength, energy, and sustainability matter more than shrinking as fast as possible.
2ď¸âŁThat the number on the scale determines success.
Now I check in with how I felt during the week. How did my workouts rate? Did I PR? Do my photos show change? Did my measurements go down? All the data matters, not just the scale.
3ď¸âŁCheat days.
I used to drink my cheat day instead of having a higher-calorie meal. I donât even know this girl anymore. I avoid hangovers like the plague now.
If I really want something, I track it and have it. And 9 times out of 10, I decide my plan will make me feel more satisfied than the treat.
4ď¸âŁDoing extra to earn food.
My program fits my goals. My only job is to show up and do it. Exercise is not punishment. Itâs my tool, and when paired with supportive nutrition, it gets me closer to the strong, athletic body I want.
5ď¸âŁFads.
No powders, pills, shots, teas, shakes, meal plans, diets, or fitness crazes are better than my custom program. I donât subscribe to the âfastâ narrative. Iâm 44 and Iâve tried it all. The results I want live in boring, unsexy habits. Honestly, I wish that would become the fad.
6ď¸âŁShame.
No comments about my body, a missed workout, an untracked meal, my cycle, a weaker gym day, or societyâs expectations will shake me. These are data points of self-awareness. Theyâre contrast that redirects me toward what I want and how Iâll get there. Shame is not motivating.
What rules do you no longer follow?