Attuned Up Counselling Services

Attuned Up Counselling Services Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) in private practice currently accepting new clients for online Adaptation is a lifelong process.

Using a variety of therapeutic techniques combined with psycho-education, I work collaboratively with you to explore your influential experiences and their consequential effects on the beliefs and behavioral responses that contribute to your relational life both personally and professionally. I am influenced by theories grounded in evolutionary psychology, epigenetics, neuroscience, and sociobiology. Integrating knowledge and experience can have a profound effect on healing and ultimately contributes to new ways of responding. By illuminating the factors that inform how we make sense of our world, we learn to reconcile the past, expand the available tools necessary to navigate our present, and increase a sense of autonomy in our future. In my practice, I deal primarily with persistent patterns of behavior as well as individuals that may have been diagnosed with, or have concerns around, mood and/or personality disorders. These can include concerns around anger, anxiety, depression, trauma, or re-occurring patterns in your life that in turn effect decision making, relationships, and general vitality. Becoming attuned is the act of making harmonious - to increase our awareness of what is needed and/or wanted, and to improve our ability to respond appropriately. Together we will identify any barriers to vitality and strengthen skills essential for resilience and connection.

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๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’“๐’‚๐’”๐’š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’‚๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ต๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’๐’–๐’” ๐‘บ๐’š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’Ž. The parasympathetic nervous system works to ๐’”๐’๐’๐’˜ ๐’…๐’๐’˜๐’ certain ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’‘๐’๐’๐’”๐’†๐’” and bring about a state of ๐’‰๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’”๐’•๐’‚๐’”๐’Š๐’” to the ๐’ƒ๐’๐’…๐’š, allowing it to ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’•, ๐’“๐’†๐’๐’‚๐’™, and ๐’“๐’†๐’‘๐’‚๐’Š๐’“ itself. Parasympathetic responses include an increase of digestive enzymes, decreased heart rate, constriction of bronchial tubes in the lungs, and more relaxed muscles. It is this system that helps us to rest, relax, and ๐’…๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’†๐’”๐’•.

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘บ๐’š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’‚๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’•๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ต๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’๐’–๐’” ๐‘บ๐’š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’Ž. The sympathetic nervous system is known as our ๐’‡๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• or ๐’‡๐’๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• response. When we are faced with a perceived ๐’•๐’‰๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’• of any kind, whether ๐’‘๐’‰๐’š๐’”๐’Š๐’„๐’‚๐’ or ๐’†๐’Ž๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’‚๐’, our sympathetic nervous system kicks into gear and brings about automatic and involuntary responses, such as increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, elevated respiratory rate, and more sweating. The sympathetic nervous syste also shuts down many
parasympathetic responses in order to utilize more energy for the ๐’‡๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• or ๐’‡๐’๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’‘๐’๐’๐’”๐’†.

๐‘ฏ๐’๐’˜ ๐’•๐’ ๐’“๐’†๐’ˆ๐’–๐’๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ต๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’๐’–๐’” ๐‘บ๐’š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’Ž: Stimulate the Vagus Nerve
๐‘ต๐’‚๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’† ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐‘บ๐’–๐’๐’”๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’†
Forrest bathing and sunshine are medicine for the nervous system.

๐‘ป๐’–๐’“๐’ ๐’…๐’๐’˜๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’—๐’๐’๐’–๐’Ž๐’†
and unnecessary stimuli to activate the parasympathetic nervous system.

๐‘ฏ๐’–๐’ˆ, ๐’„๐’–๐’…๐’…๐’๐’† ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’†๐’Ž๐’ƒ๐’“๐’‚๐’„๐’†
to elevate, and release endorphins and oxytocin. Co-regulation is very powerful if the other person is calm.

๐‘ฎ๐’“๐’๐’–๐’๐’…
Try a weighted blanket or walk barefoot, it helps relieve anxiety and ground. Meditation, breath-work or Yoga can also help. Disciplines like yoga increase vagus nerve activity to help keep you calm and are particularly effective for people suffering from anxiety or depression. Breathing slowly and deeply activates your vagus nerve to send messages to your brain that help lower your blood pressure and heart rate.

๐‘ด๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’”๐’‘๐’‚๐’„๐’†
to tend to your needs, and do activities that feed your soul.

๐‘บ๐’‰๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’Š๐’• ๐’๐’‡๐’‡
by physically moving your body to shake off built-up energy.
Exercise is good for your brain's cognitive faculties. your mental health and your gut flow, thanks to its ability.

๐‘ช๐’๐’๐’… ๐‘ท๐’๐’–๐’๐’ˆ๐’†๐’”
Cold water plunges or ice baths alleviate inflammation + increase our repair mechanisms. Exposure to cold dampens the light or flight response and increases the rest and digest response, like taking a cold shower or drinking ice water.

๐‘ป๐’–๐’“๐’ ๐’…๐’๐’˜๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’—๐’๐’๐’–๐’Ž๐’†
Fats are essential to build nerve tissue (including brain + nerves)
and hormones. You can improve your mood simply by silently repeating positive phrases about your friends and family.

๐‘ฎ๐’๐’๐’… ๐’”๐’๐’†๐’†๐’‘
Set a personal goal of 8 hours to gain all the benefits of our body and mind in rest.

๐‘บ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ
Humming, chanting and singing are all exercises that increase heart rate variability (HRV).
Higher HRV is linked with reduced morbidity and mortality and improved psychological well-being and quality of life. Laughter is a natural immune booster which, like singing can increase HRV in a group setting. Gargling with water stimulates the muscles of the pallet and has been shown to improve working momory performance.

๐‘ฏ๐’๐’˜ ๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‚๐’๐’” ๐‘ซ๐’Š๐’”๐’„๐’‰๐’‚๐’“๐’ˆ๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‰๐’๐’„๐’Œ:
Dr. Levine was inspired to study stress on the animal nervous system when he realized that animals are constantly under threat of death, yet show no symptoms of trauma. What he discovered was that trauma has to do with the third survival response to perceived life threat, which is freeze. When fight and flight are not options, we freeze and immobilize, like "playing dead." This makes us less of a target. However, this reaction is time-sensitive, in other words, it needs to run its course, and the massive energy that was prepared for fight or flight gets discharged, through shakes and trembling. If the immobility phase doesn't complete, then that charge stays trapped, and, from the body's perspective, it is still under threat. The Somatic Experiencingยฎ method works to release this stored energy, and turn off this threat alarm that causes severe ๐’…๐’š๐’”๐’“๐’†๐’ˆ๐’–๐’๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ and ๐’…๐’Š๐’”๐’”๐’๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’.

๐‘พ๐’‚๐’š๐’” ๐’•๐’ ๐’„๐’‚๐’๐’Ž ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ต๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’๐’–๐’” ๐‘บ๐’š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’Ž:

โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟhumming
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟlistening to calm music
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟdeep sigh
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟshacking
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟexercising
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟyoga
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟtouch therapy
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟgargling
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟcold shower
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟsinging
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟchanting
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟconnecting with nature
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟmassage
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟaromatherapy
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟdeep breathing
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟbutterfly hug
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟsqueezing a stress ball
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟpracticing mindfulness
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟdancing
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟbody scan
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟconnecting with loved ones
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟplacing your hand over your heart with deep breathing
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟpetting an animal
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟdoing art
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟgentle touch
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟregular self-care
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟlaughter
โ€ข ๏ปฟ๏ปฟgentle tickling
โ€ข body therapy
โ€ข Suck ice-cubes/splash face with cold water
โ€ข Run/walk/dance/sing
โ€ข Journal
โ€ข Guided meditation
โ€ข Box breathing
โ€ข 4-7-8 breathing
โ€ข Tapping technique
โ€ข Practising gratitude
โ€ข Visualisation

๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’„๐’‚๐’ ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’ ๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’ ๐‘ฝ๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’–๐’” ๐‘ต๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’† ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’• ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’๐’๐’˜:
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