02/01/2026
Have you wondered how unhealthy relationships have affected you?
Have you given a person the benefit of doubt? Trusting, yet on the fence line? Yet each time you connect with the person you do not feel right.
Setting boundaries is huge. We need to set boundaries and state what we are not comfortable with. If the person keeps overstepping those boundaries, then makes us feel guilty for say no, we need to fully let go.
I am going to use two examples and experiences that I have gone through and have learnt from. I know this can happen again, yet I know what signs to look for. Even though I can still feel unconditional love for all of them, I need to love myself more, for my own health and wellbeing.
1. There are two times over the last 3-4 years that I connected with two people that are spiritually connected. Both people were fun to work with, and I got to share what I have learnt over the years to help them out. There were times that they paid for the Reiki and readings that they received. Huge gratitude.
What I found was that they become dependent on me and expected me to be there 24/7. When I set boundaries with both, they kept overstepping them thinking that maybe I was being selfish? Not caring?
Interesting as when I had enough, I was not being heard, I worked with the hopoopono prayer, did a full cord cutting, let go of any contracts that may have been created, and closed the portal connected to them. After wards I did not hear from them and nor did they offer a verbal apology for the discomfort that they created. After both times of doing this, one year apart, my legs felt 100x better. My legs are not hurting anymore.
2. We all can have traits of narcissism, and generally we all learn how to grow and shift out of it with healing on a soul level. This example is about two people that are still stuck in the trauma, being a bully, and gaslighting is a game with them. Wanting others to feel sorry for them, crappy and angry the way they do.
About a month ago, I gave one a benefit of the doubt, praying that after 2-3 years of being disconnect we could communicate better. With the second person, kept a message on my phone that I had to send.
Over the last month, my bad spirit dreams came back. Restless nights. Even got constipated. About 3 days ago I finally got tired of the BS, again worked with the prayer, full cord cutting, and more. That night I had the best sleep in over a month. The next day my tummy started to work again.
If we let go with unconditional love (understanding that they have gone through trauma themselves, we can still love them at a distance and on a soul level. When we can do this, we are then truly loving ourselves and know that we do not need to be loved or liked by others that are not here for us in a healthy way.
I use the Akashic Records to see where the patterns are coming from and can help you make those shifts so that you can be healthy on all levels and not riding on contracts that others have created out of resentment.
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