Dynamic Journey, End of Life Practitioner

02/18/2026

Dear Friends and Supporters,
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As we reflect on the last five years at Dynamic Journey, I would like to take a moment to extend my heartfelt gratitude for your unwavering support and trust in the services as an End of Life Practitioner. Your kindness and encouragement have been integral to our growth and success in providing compassionate care to individuals and families during some of life’s most challenging times.

Over these years, we have focused on delivering comprehensive care that addresses not only the physical needs but also the emotional, psychological, and spiritual aspects of end-of-life journeys. It has been our privilege to guide and support many families through this profound process, ensuring that love and dignity remain at the forefront.

The educational initiatives have empowered families and caregivers with the knowledge and skills necessary to approach end-of-life care with confidence and compassion. I am grateful to everyone who participated in these sessions and took the time to learn and share their experiences.

Additionally, the advocacy efforts to raise awareness about the significance of end-of-life care have strengthened our communities. It has been inspiring to see so many come together to promote understanding around this essential aspect of life.

I also wish to acknowledge the strong connections we’ve built with local organizations and support groups. Your collaboration has been invaluable, allowing us to expand our services and enhance the care we provide.

Thank you once again for being a part of our journey. Your support fuels our commitment to service, and together, we will continue to honour the lives of those we care for with the dignity and respect they deserve.
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With gratitude,
Janet O’Dell - Last Responder & Izy - First Responder

Photo Credit: Arleta

02/16/2026

Izy and I are excited to share that we have visited the Wind Phone in its new location, and we are delighted to announce its soft opening at the Courtenay Civic Cemetery!

This project has been close to my heart for several years, and I envisioned this installation as a tranquil space where we can connect with our loved ones who are no longer with us. It provides a nurturing environment for reflection, healing, and remembrance, and I believe it is perfect in every way.

I warmly invite each of you to visit this special space and take the opportunity to honour those dear to us by making a phone call. The Wind Phone is designed to help us share our thoughts, feelings, and cherished memories, fostering a deeper connection with our loved ones.

While we await the official installation announcement and the finalization of the plaque by the City of Courtenay, I am pleased to let you know that the Wind Phone is open for everyone to use. We look forward to welcoming you to this meaningful space.

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02/10/2026

I was recently contacted by a Healthcare Provider from VIHA whom has invited me to participate in an important project focused on community-based supports for equity-deserving populations seeking Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD) on Vancouver Island.
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As many of you may know, I am extremely passionate about advocating for compassionate end-of-life care, and this project offers a significant opportunity to engage in meaningful discussions alongside MAiD team members and individuals with lived experiences. I’m looking forward to contributing to the conversations, sharing my experiences, the public’s perspectives, and exploring ways to enhance support for those navigating these critical decisions.

It’s time to share all the important insights and perspectives from many people!

02/07/2026

🤨 🔆 Are you living your full life?
Shoulda …
Coulda …
Woulda …
BUT
Did ya?

Get out of the box before you get in the box! 🗃️

Living life to the fullest means embracing each moment with intention and passion, stepping outside the confines of comfort and expectation. It invites us to take risks, pursue our dreams, and seek meaningful experiences that enrich our journey. Rather than being hindered by regrets of what we should have done or could have achieved, we should focus on the present, making choices that align with our true selves. Life is fleeting, and each day offers a new opportunity to explore, connect, and grow, ensuring that when the time comes to reflect, we can do so with a heart full of courage and fulfillment, having truly lived before we die.

02/05/2026

💥✨ Receiving such a powerful statement filled my heart with so much gratitude. 🥺 This is why I do what I do!!

In a time when many seniors lack resources and family support, my mission is to ensure their voices are heard within the medical system. It is crucial that we advocate for these individuals, providing them with the dignity and respect they deserve during such vulnerable moments in their lives. I am committed to navigating the complexities of the healthcare system to ensure that their needs are met and that they receive compassionate care.

Seniors deserve not only acknowledgment of their struggles but also a steadfast advocate who will speak up on their behalf. Together, we can work towards creating a supportive environment where they feel valued and cared for, even in the face of daunting challenges.

Thank you for trusting me to stand by your side during these crucial times.

02/05/2026

This will be an amazing event! ✨
Highly recommend these two ladies for end of life information!!

Join us for an exclusive live event with industry experts Micheline Grondin and Tracy Chalmers. Discover the chain of events after deaths, legalities of disposi

02/04/2026

🩵💎 Today, I had the honour of facilitating Tea with a Death Doula gathering for the Comox Valley community. As I walked in, I mentioned I hadn’t seen ____ in awhile, that’s when I learned that one of my regulars will no longer be present to sip tea, to laugh, to cry and to talk positively about death and dying with us again.

Our members of community came together to hold space for this poignant moment in our lives. We offered prayers, stood in silence, shared reflections, and embraced our emotions, celebrating a life filled with smiles, laughter and love. It was a beautiful reminder of the strength found in community and the importance of supporting each other even if we are strangers, during life’s transitions.

Here’s to honouring the spirit of a wonderful soul and cherishing the connections we do have that continue those ripples in our lives.

Rest Easy my friend.

Thank you for the serendipitous gift today Z
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02/01/2026

The opportunity to flip the script has appeared!
This is what I do, plus a “few” extra gems 💎 hidden in my back pocket to help support others in life and death.

Be Good to You
and Take no S**t!

In every moment there is an opportunity to flip your script and turn a negative into a positive one. Be part of the change. As a passionate EOLD, I continue to use these moments as teaching strategies to help others prepare for the high emotional conversations.

01/31/2026

The concept of a Death “Doula” has become a matter of personal significance and reflection for me. My recent engagement involved a structured half-hour phone consultation followed by three hours of in-person discussions aimed at clarifying the role of death doulas. Participants were educated on the scope of services provided, including assistance in gathering documents, compiling medical histories, and offering resources and referrals. The support extended to the spouse included scheduling an appointment to advocate for the individual’s quality of life with healthcare professionals. The session ended with a mutual handshakes and hugs.

Reflection from January 23, 2026
During a recent care call, I encountered a client who expressed frustration in a series of distressing comments:
“You’re a Death Doula, why can’t you just kill me?”
“Why can’t you just provide (MAiD)?”
“You should help me end my suffering!”
“There are drug dealers on the streets; they have what you can offer.”
“You’re useless.”
“You want people to suffer.”

In response, I maintained my composure:
“No sir, I absolutely do not want to see anyone suffer. I hear your frustration, but I will not tolerate disrespectful language. I will not assist you in that capacity.”

His reaction was one of dismissal:
“You are a waste of time to talk to!”
With a swift movement, he hung up the phone—an old school model that added a dramatic touch to the moment.

Ultimately, I was unable to fulfill his expectations.

PSA: 📡 I am NOT a servant of death!
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01/28/2026

🫖 Talking about death and dying can feel a bit heavy, but how about we make it a gentle experience over some warm tea? ☕️

☕️ Join me for an engaging and thought-provoking gathering on

TUESDAY, February 3rd at 10:00 AM at the Vancouver Regional COMOX Library
AND at 2pm at the COURTENAY Library

We’ll create a cozy vibe where we can sip tea, share great conversations, and dive into some of life’s biggest questions together.
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We’re all traveling on this journey called life, so let’s swap insights and thoughts! Talking about death can actually lead us to live more fully. I can’t wait to share a cup with you!

🗓️ Don’t forget, Tea with a Death Doula happens every 1st Tuesday of the month at 10am in Comox AND then at 2pm in Courtenay!

Everyone is welcome to join in on this fun and free event! Share with your friends and family!

VI Regional Library Comox
VI Regional Library Courtenay

01/24/2026

✨ Welcome to My Legacy Story ✨
Legacy isn’t just what we leave behind — it’s what we pass forward.

My name is Hilary, the creator and founder of My Legacy Story. I am a keeper of stories, a guide through transitions, and a tender steward of legacy.

I believe every life holds a beautiful and necessary story — one that deserves to be remembered, honoured, and shared with clarity, compassion, and truth.

My Legacy Story exists to help people explore and preserve their emotional inheritance — the memories, values, lessons, love, and lived wisdom that shape who we are and who we become. Not just the things we own, but the meaning we carry.

Through writing, reflection, gentle conversation, and intentional preparation, I support individuals and families in:
• remembering what mattered
• honouring where they’ve been
• and choosing what truly matters now

This work is about more than end-of-life.
It’s about the transitions within life — identity shifts, seasons of change, loss, becoming, and the quiet moments where we realize we want to live more lightly and more honestly.

Legacy, to me, is not something we wait to tend to. It’s something we live into.

Here, you’ll find reflections, prompts, stories, and offerings that help make the invisible visible — so what matters most doesn’t get lost.

✨ My Legacy Story
Honouring emotional inheritance — the stories that shape us, and the truths we pass forward.

I’m so glad you’re here. 🤍

01/24/2026

🌿Marvellous Friday afternoon spent with Hilary, sipping tea, filling the belly with yummy goodies, and frolicking through her space named “Fern Grove”🌿

Meeting Hilary Schweitzer, the author of My Legacy Story was a truly inspiring experience. As a mom, daughter and end-of-life practitioner, I found this resource to be a profound tool that beautifully captures the essence of individual lives and enables people to reflect on their journeys. Hilary’s work resonates deeply with the importance of storytelling and legacy, offering a magical way for individuals and families to engage in meaningful conversations about life, love, and the memories that shape us. It empowers people, myself included to articulate their stories, fostering healing and connection.

As we quickly got to know each other we realized how much interwoven magic there is between us. Thank you to for the introduction! 🙌🏻✨ I’m completely blown away! 🌀🌹

As I personally fill out My Legacy Story, I invite you to check out Hilary’s offerings at
www.mylegacystory.co
and start writing your story.
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For more information about My Legacy Story, reach out to Hilary at:
info@mylegacystory.co